okay...umm yesterday was the 1st day of my period, and my boyfriend and i made out later on that night. well he ended up taking his clothes off, and he asked me to take my pants off...i explained to him that i was on my period and how i felt that it was gross because i didnt want to get blood anywhere. he didnt believe me at first so he asked, "did it jus come on today?" i responded and said, "yea!" and he said, "well it's alright baby just take em' off it's okay if u get blood anywhere" i blabbered on for like 5min about how disgusting it was. then he got on top of me, kissed me, then took my pants off. i laughed and asked him if he liked my "granny panties." okay anwayz, we made out for like 15min then i eventually got on top of him and grinded on his penis, i think he ejaculated b/c when i stopped it felt wet/moist. im too afraid to ask him if he really did, but the sametime im afraid that i might be a "pregnant virgin." Is it possible, how do i tell without asking if he ejaculated? and although i had on a pad + underwear could i possibly be pregnant?
ciao77 answered Sunday January 14 2007, 5:19 pm: It is possible for the sperm to have seeped through the fibers in your panties. The chances of becoming pregnant are lower than if you had actually had sex, but they are there. .you did mention that you felt the ejaculate. But you also did mention that you had a pad on, so I'd say that you're probably fine. But you should go to a clinic and talk to a nurse, and they can also do a pregnancy test...it'll reassure you.
What i would be worried about is how your boyfriend pressured you into doing something you did not want to do, and were uncomfortable doing. That's the problem. You should talk to him about it and stick up for yourself. [ ciao77's advice column | Ask ciao77 A Question ]
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