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This situation is a litte weird. So I'm 14/f and this girl, let's call her Jane, is in my grade and let's call this other girl Lisa, is in a grade level high than ours. So Jane and I were good friends last year but one thing piled on top of another and I really dislike her now and I'm tyring to pull away from her deviously as to not cause any drama [I know, unavoidable] Lisa, is a trouble girl I guess. She's doing drugs, she smokes, drinks, and all that stuff. She also goes out with guys/girls for the max 2 weeks and in b/w she screws them [she lost her viginity when she was 13 or 14]
Well, guess what. Jane and Lisa are going out. Jane is already doing drugs so that won't effect her. But Jane and Lisa..well they're both horny all the time and I swera Lisa will get Jane involved in some sexual activity soon. They're already making out in front of everyone at school and they've been going out for 2 days now?
Should I be worried..should I just leave this alone...should i step in...what sohuld I do?
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Okay, I'm not POSITIVE that your school will have one, but most schools have a box type thing where you can ANONOMOUSLY place referals to the guidance counselour for yourself or friends. Don't put it in there if you aren't worried about Jane and Lisa. Also, if you think they might think it was you, don't put it in yourself. Ask someone you TRUST to put it in for you. I've done this for a bunch of people.
I know that it's probabaly hard to rat out someone, but if you're really worried, its the right thing to do.
EDIT::: SO if you don't, just write a letter to the guidance counselour. Put in the letter that its anonomous just for your safety, and that you really don't want him/her to doubt that you're telling the truth.
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If they aren't involving you, and it has nothing to do with you, there's not a lot you can do.
You can direct them to get help with their drug abuse. I would. That is a big concern for their well being.
However, when it comes down to their sex lives and all that, there isn't anything you can do. Their sex lives are, really, no body's business but their own.
What they are doing has no effect on you, so let them do what they will. That's all you can do.
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