14/f
she is just the one girl who takes all the guys i like. before i have a chance with them.I really like this one guy lets call him bob she is now going out with him and now she bumps into me on purpose and is always rude to me.i cant compete with her. it not fair.she has a c or d cup and is always flirting and is a hoe and i am the smart, funny, laid back girl who is pretty but then she shows up. what do i do. i still really like this guy bob. how can i stop this from happening and why is she doing this to me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Saturday January 13 2007, 12:17 am: Dont say you cant compete with her. You have the same chance with any guy that she has. If shes like you say she is, then guys only like her because of her looks and her boyfriend will eventually get bored of her. You seem like a really nice person with a great personality and thats why guys should like you so if "bob" likes this chick more than you hes probably not worth it. Try not to tell so many people about who you like. If you have to tell someone tell your closest or best friend or someone who you trust alot. i hope everything works out =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx [ xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx's advice column | Ask xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx A Question ]
christina answered Friday January 12 2007, 11:46 pm: I'd just punch the bitch in the face. But that's only my opinion on what I would do if I was in your position.
Anyways, if you've been telling people who you like, I'd suggest on keeping it to myself because that's how she finds out & backfires it into your face just to get to you. She just does it for attention & to get a rise out of you. And there's no doubt it's working. You shouldn't let her get to you. Just start talking to someone else & if she tries to take him away too, tell him you like him & kiss him. She'll get pissed & then she'll see how it feels.
Besides, guys usually go for the easy girls, and that's why they usually choose her over you. Girls like you are considered a challenge. Either that, or he's just a fucking idiot.
MSMWBTUA1718 answered Friday January 12 2007, 11:20 pm: Well first of all this girl is pretty disrespectful. You're right that is unfair. Have you been telling people who you like? If you have, maybe it'd be easier to keep it to yourself or with your closest most trustworthy friends. And then it may be easier for you to talk to a guy without this girl knowing first. She might be doing this because she jealous of you and doesn't want you to get the guy first. she wants to look like she's better, which is pretty pointless because a relationship is a relationship not a competition. ou shouldn't have to compete for a guy, that's not fair to you at all. Just get to know guys, don't let her get in the way of your life. [ MSMWBTUA1718's advice column | Ask MSMWBTUA1718 A Question ]
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