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im sad!!
ok there is this boy talon and i still like him but i dumped him because he lied about dancing with 2 girls it was 4 and he never asked his own gf to dance but they asked him and they he lied about flirting he flirted with 2 girls and he talks to them more them me but he loves me alot and i love him but he keeps on saying sorry for everything he does what should i do ask him back out or stay single
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STAY SINGLE!
If he hurt you once, what makes you think he isn't going to hurt you again?
He's a con artist. If he loved you in the first place, why would he have danced/flirted with these girls?
So yes, I'd stay single.
You'll find someone else...someone who doesn't lie or cheat on you :]
-Jam
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Well, everyone keeps saying take him back, and such, but i'm in a relationship right now, and we've been together over a year, and if he ever danced with someone else, and not me...And even if I caught him flirting with another girl, I would be one heated little midget...o.o;
But, something I do know...No matter who you are, guys always like sweet girls...ALWAYS...
And as childish as this is, play the hurt card. Tell him your fine, but act nervous when he gets around you, like your not exactly sure you can trust him, but you want to so bad...
Act like your afraid he'll dump you if you screw up somehow, be shy, and EVERY time he says he's sorry, laugh and tell him it's alright...
But, if he keeps the flirting up, I wouldn't deal with it...
Flirting leads to playing, playing leads to cheating, cheating leads to heartbreak, heartbreak leads to dumping.
But, don't be to rash...Some flirting can be ok...I was accused of cheating on my BF because my best friend and I joked around alot. Be sure you can spot real flirting, and just being goofy.
And, I don't know if that helps any, but it's what I would do...
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i think that you should try it again but do the same thing he is doing even thou thats being just like him.. but he deserves to feel what u felt when he was doing his thing wit other girls...do it with someone thats not that close to him but cute..just flirt and dance with them and see wat he says...pay back is a bitch!:)
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hey, well this is like my boyfriend. you have to decide ; do you trust him enough to be with him? if you do trust him and believe that he wont do anything besides dance and flirt then you should go for it! get back into a relationship. if you think your going to accuse him of anything and everything then dont get back into a relationship with him.
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He can't keep apologizing for being who he is. He will eventually feel that he is not good enough to meet your expectations and that will kill the relationship. Flirting is not bad, but lying is. Try to start the conversation about getting back together by asking him to be honest with the promise that you won't punish him for it.
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Don't be so jealous. You need to trust him some more. Yeah, it was really crappy of him not to ask you to dance and to lie, but you can't blame him for dancing with those other girls. They asked him to dance so he was just being nice. It's not like he asked them to dance and didn't ask you. Maybe he was really nervous or shy. Why didn't you ask him to dance like the other girls did? There was nothing preventing you from dancing with him. That would have solved all your problems. If the answer is because you were nervous, your boyfriend is a person too. Yeah, he's the guy and he's "supposed" to do the asking, but he has the same feelings as you do. Maybe he just couldn't get past them.
I'm sure your boyfriend is rather good looking. Other girls are going to like him. Nobody can help that. You're going to have to learn to live with that. What matters isn't that they like him or that they try to get with him, it's that he doesn't like them back. All he did was dance with them after they asked. Other girls will be trying to make moves on him all the time. There is nothing wrong with that. There is no reason to be jealous at all. He is going out with you, not them. He likes you and has no feelings for them whatsoever.
Even though he lied and even though he didn't dance with you and everything, I think that you should give him one more chance. He's probably being sincere when he says that he is sorry. If you do choose to give him another chance, the next time you go to a dance with him, ask him to dance yourself. Once the ice is broken things will be much easier.
If he lies again, he's not worth keeping around. That was a stupid thing to lie about. If he continues lying about things that don't matter, you can't really trust him not to lie about things that do. Good luck. :)
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dancing is not a big deal, if he loves you and says sorry all the time than he probably still wants to be with you. If i was you, than I would still stay with him noones perfect we all screw up in dating but most of us still get chances=]. give ur guy a chance maybe now he noticed what could have happend and wont do this again, & have a talk to him that it bothered you that he lied (if uwant to )
hope ihekped,
Xoxox Esty
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In my opinion, dancing with people shouldn't be considered cheating or something to get mad over. I also understand that flirting can hurt you but everybody flirts, whether they realize it or not. I get accussed of flirting with my best guy friend everyday without even realizing it. I think you should talk to Talon about this and tell him how his lying upsets you. Perhaps the reason you get mad at him when hes with other girls is because he makes you jealous. Just talk it out with him and if he doesn't care about your feelings then forget about him and move on.
Hope I helped a little =]
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