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Is he controlling??
Ok so im a 14/f and im going out w/ a 16/m. He doesnt go to my school. Its really hard for me. He says he loves me alot that he'd do anything for me. Well he always thinks im cheating on him cause i have a lot of guy friends. but i tell him i would never do anything like that to him. He means everything to me. He doesnt like any of my guy friends and he doesnt wanna lose me to anyone. He doesnt wanna share me with anyone. What am i supppose to do??
Is he controlling me? Or is it just how much he loves me?? Advice plz!!!
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Well, he is a little insecure and caring. But when trust is lost in a relationship - its like the source that holds you 2 together is sorta breaking. If he can't trust you then maybe its time... to move on. Sorry.
If you love him dearly and wouldn't mind him not trusting you at the moment, then make it very clear that thise guys are JUST your friends and you would never in your life do anything a friend wouldn't do!
When he brings the topic up, take about it. Tell him how you feel and spill your feelings and mainly tell him you love him! Guys can't resist those lines! It should do the trick!
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Hey,
Well, it's pretty obvious that your boyfriend is insecure. I don't blame him, I probably would be too if my boyfriend was at a different school and had a bunch of girl friends, you know?
You said that you told him you'd "never do anything like that to him".
Make sure you repeat that every time he brings up the subject. Assure him by inviting him to come to your school at any time. Let him look through your phone calls if he wants. Prove to him that you have nothing to hide.
Tell him that he means everything to you, and that you'd be lost without him!
Also tell him that you prefer guy friends over girl friends, but you'd never do anything with these guys.
Don't avoid the subject if he brings it up-just talk about it, because he might think you're trying to cover something up if you avoid it, you know?
I don't think he's controlling, but I definitely think he loves you!
Hope I helped.
Hope everything goes well!
-Jam
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He's insecure, and that situation can potentially turn into control. But it's natural for your boyfriend to be jealous of your guy friends.
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You should keep telling him, and if it doesn't work, invite him to hang out with your friends so he can see for himself. Who knows? He might even like your friends!
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Julia
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Aw. Yeah, I'm jealous.
Nah, he's not 'controlling' until he starts telling you that you need to stop being friends with certain people. He odviously cares alot for you and is sincere about what he says--
Tell him to trust you. You chose to be his girlfriend for a reason- because you like HIM; AND you've odviously continued to like HIM, because you've been faithful to him and have stayed his girlfriend.
If he can't trust you, then I don't know what to tell you. All good relationships are based on trust.
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