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im hanging out with a group of friends. we are 5. im really close to 2 of them and after 2006 the other 2 changed a lot. us three (really close friends) want to get ride of or ditch (sounds bad) but like not be the other 2s firends anymore. ive tried talking to them about it and giving them hints but they dont get it. wen i start school, wat should i do? i need to get rid of them. they have changed, they make us look bad and they are soooo annoying. helpp
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best thing to do in avaiod them and when they get near you tell them straight up that you don't want to hang out with them anyore trust me it is the only way...it's on of those things that you can't handle gently
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The thing is, it's not really a good idea to just randomly drop friends. It's painful for the other people, especially if you were close[ish] friends and they felt like they trusted you. And to be honest, it's pretty mean to just decide to "get rid of people", no matter how different from you they become.
But, if they aren't your idea of a good friendship anymore, here's what you could do: start being too busy for them. Join a sport team, take up irish dancing, whatever [or make them think you did-- though be VERY, VERY CAREFUL with this. If they find out, it's going to be even more humiliating for them.] If they see that you and your friends have moved on with your life a little bit, they may start to branch out and make new friends, an eventually, you'll grow apart.
Keep in mind though, ALL friendships that end can leave bitter feelings and resentment. Be very, very polit [not nice neccesarily] to them, or they could crush you with everything they know about you, especially if you've been friends for a while.
Good Luck!
xx, Holly
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