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I'm so confused!
All my friends are splitting up & talking behind eachothers backs!! & like the second one of them will go away, they'll be like.. "ehmagawd, i hate her." or something like that. I'm afraid their doing this to me too. I don't know who to trust anymore. & their all doing it too! Their all sooo fake. & I can't be friends with anyone else, I go to a very small school. & I'm not hanging out with losers or the sluts. SO. what do i do!?
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aww i know how ye feel nd it sucks
i was in eh exact ssame place nd kinda still am
it was reli hard cos lyk a had one person telling me one thing another saying sumfin bout eh first person nd its a pain n eh bckside
but if ye think on it all people tok behind peoples bcks nd dats eh way of lyf sorry
dis isnt prob helping
basically ye jst need to say to them nd this is what i did
say to them btw instead of tokin bout each other behinf each others bcks say it too there face... it may sound harsh but it works seriously they all get there feelings out about each other nd usually it sorts itself
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I know this isn't what you want to hear, but sounds like the real losers in your school are the friends you are hanging out with. If that isn't what you want to be, then find new friends. Small school or no small school.
The "losers" and "sluts" are only that because you and your back stabbing pals labeled them that way. They are people with feelings like you. I have no doubt they have more feelings than your cold hearted friends. Believe me, I was one of your "losers" in my day.
A friend is not someone who causes you mistrust. Why would you want to have a friend like that? You deserve better than that crap.
For you to continue playing buddies to these so-called friends, makes you just as fake as they are. I'm sorry but it's the sad truth.
Maybe you should try to hang out with one of the "losers." You will most likely have a better chance of finding a real friend in that group.
It makes no since for you to continue with the group you are hanging out with. There is more to life than silly "I hate you today, and her tomorrow" games.
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Um, age would've been helpful but it seems that you guys are at a level where it's "in" and constant to talk about each other. They're just being immature and showing that:
1-they have no lives
2-they have to criticize other's to boost their ego up.
So, keep this in mind "No one can make you inferior without your permission" by Eleanor Roosevelt. Just keep yourself out of this, don't mind what the other girls are saying and in the end, they'll be the lsoers who looked like idiots.
Just hang low for a while and stay away from these girls and focuse on school work heh.
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