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Arguments all the time
Me and my big sis argue all the time and its always over little things
its sort of stopped but still how can i make it stop perminently ??
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Sister arguements are quite normal, but brutal a lot of the time. I'm guessing that you and your sis have a close relationship, and really love eachother, but seem or seemed to fight a lot. Well, you really need to get together with your sis and tell how you feel about the fights that you two have been having. If you two don't know how eachother feel about this, it might cause more fights. You also need to work with her to find out what is making you two fight so much, and find the best/better way of solving it. I have a little sis and we fight a lot to, so I might not be an expert, but I do know that talking it out calmly and actually listening to eachother is a great way to help these kinds of things. One of the most important things you can do when talking to eachother is there is a little..."game" that you can play while talking to her. Each of you pick who goes first with talking, then that person tell you how they feel, and how it upset them, without putting you down, you listen without interupting, or pulling a face or anything. Then when she is done, it's your turn, you tell her everything you feel and think and you tell her what you think you can do to fix it. But don't put her down, and don't argue with what she said, just compair, and then you two should compromise. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. I hope that it goes well, and I would really like it if you told me how it went. Good luck! A thanks for dropping me a question!
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