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guy friends
15/f. i really want to make more guy friends because there is just so much drama with girls and i think that it is always good to have a couple good guy friends. what are some ways to make more guy friends without them thinking i like them or i'm flirting with them. because i don't want to come off as flirting when i'm only trying to be friendly.
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You're right about the drama...
Just be regular friends. Tell them stories, jokes, thoughts, feelings, etc. You don't have to treat them that differently than you would your normal girl friends. Might not want to share monthly news, run off gossip, or get the latest celebrity scoop with them.
Don't feel like there are certain things you have to say or do to let a guy know you want to be friends instead of liking them. Plus, don't be too surprised if a guy friend of yours actually ends up liking you. It happens.
Talk about whatever, doesn't have to be just guy stuff. Ask them for help sometimes - good way to get a friendship started, and most would be willing to help anyways. Actually, I think you should even find a guy to ask on how to make more guy friends...sounds weird but something good will happen. Give it a shot. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Hm, I guess you just have to be interested in something they like! Dont talk about makeup with them or anything, talk about a great adventure movie you want to see. Ask them for advice about guys so they know youre not trying to get with THEM. Treat them like a brother and joke around with them. Tease them playfully in a non-flirtful way. I agree with you that girls are annoying and hard to be friends with. Invite a few guys over for a movie and FOOD hang out. Just make sure you dont lose yourself just to be friends with guys.
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