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sending a letter
i met this guy through a chat room. i've talked to him for a little over a year and got attached to him a lot and he's basically my only support. don't lecture me on that. well after he went to culinary school got a job and a gf, he doesnt have time to get on anymore. i sent him a letter previously --once and i still have his address. i talked to him a few days ago and he said something that really hurt me but he doesn't know that he did. but anywhos i really want to stay in touch with him since i wasnt able to talk to him for 6months...i want to send him a letter but idk if he's still at culinary school or home for break but i want to send him a letter just saying hi and just about stuff but i don't want to seem stalkerish or have his mom get it and yell at him for talking to a 14yr old whom he met in a chat room...i dont want him to get in trouble or think i'm stalking him or something but i want to send him a letter...so should i?
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honestly, if the guy doesn't wanna talk to you, then dont talk to him.
your only 14 -so am i but still-
i tend to fall in love easily and its not good.
if your gonna send a note, then tell him how he hurt you dearly -dearly, haha, where'd i get that-
CONSIDER IT
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I believe that if you feel you need to send the letter you should. But, you should send it only when you know where he is for sure. You mentioned something about him having hurt you, but not being aware of hurting you. Sometimes what we see as unintentional really is intentional. I just share that as a caution for you, if he happens to say something to you again that hurts you, at that point I would say give up on him. And, even if you don't hear from him after this letter you send I would try to move on from this guy. A lot of people happen to meet and be friends for a while and then something changes all of that. So give it one more shot, but don't keep your hope too high. It would probably be a good idea to look for support from other people as well, even now that you wait to send the letter.
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No this is not such a great idea.
Young people seem to get attached very easily. You need to stop dependind on this guy and start dating real guys right in front of you. And your right you are kind of you to be talking to a guy in culinary school, and he has probably realized the same thing. So To spare yourself the hurt feelings, let the situation stay at a stanstill.
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