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How do I convince my friend Rebecca that her mom does not think she looks drawn any more and she does not have to gain weight. On August 25, 2006 Rebeccas mom said: "Rebecca you look drawn, you look very thin, but you dont have to gain just dont lose." However,on September 2, 2006 her mother said: "Rebecca you look good you no longer look drawn dont forget you havent taken a vacation in 2 years." But Rebecca is still thinking now in January 2007 that her mother thinks that Rebecca looks drawn.
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Tell your friend that she's going to develope an eating disorder of some sort if she doesn't accept what other people truel think. Tell her that she looks perfect the way she is and that if she tries to do something about her weight, she's going to make herself look not too healthy. Just keep reassuring to her that she looks fine and take an old pic. of her looking drawn and hold up a picture of her now and compare them and she'll see the difference and hopefully realize that she looks wonderful right now the way she is
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If you have moderated her eating habits (if she hasn't been eating, or if she has been purging) and she's losing weight, and if that's the cause of her appearance, then you should go to her mom and just tell her that you are concerned for Rebecca and tell her why. You might want to do some research on bulimia and anorexia..as in signs and symptoms..(irribility, weight loss, paleness, hair thinning...etc..) It should b on what you look. Just inform Rebecca's parents with some information about eating disorders and their daughter. I hope I hoped in some way,
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