okay i have this really good friend that we are gonna call jhon.ok me and jhon have gone out before and he cheated on me and we broke up and three days later we started going back out because we couldnt stand being mad at each other.Well once again it didnt work out because we were not as close as we were the last time.well a couple of months went by and we still talked alot and flirted.then he got a girlfriend and the flirting stoped(and i understand that tottaly)but we still talked alot.i never stoped liking him.well him and his girlfriend broke up and the flirting started again.now we both confessed to each other who we liked(over text messaging,LOL)and i told him that i still liked him and he said he still liked me but he told me he also liked anothr girl.i asked what girl he liked more and he said "i dont know".then i asked what girl made him feel right and he said that it was me.so my question is what are the chances that we will go back out?
PS.this other girl that he likes asked him to go to the movies with her and he said no.does that mean anything??13/f and my boyfriends 15/m
ductape_n_roses answered Saturday December 30 2006, 1:47 am: No one can predict the future for anyone's relationship and it will go in the direction you want depending on what you guys do.
You're 13, don't be tied down to a 15 year old that's bound to cheat on you again, though. It seems to me that he may just be taking advantage of this situation. As we all know, most girls throw themselves at a guy that's older than them NOT saying that you are. And since you're younger than him, he could be thinking that he can just get you back whenever he wanted.
Teza answered Saturday December 30 2006, 1:33 am: I can't really predict the chances of you guys going back out, but if both of you are willing to make the relationship work out, you'll be together. Also, just because you guys started talking and flirting again should not mean that you should go out RIGHT away. Give it a couple weeks and keep flirting and talking and then see what you guys want to do. I think the reason it didn't work out the second time you guys went out was because you rushed into it too soon. Just be patient and remember, he also likes another girl. Don't let him screw you over & hurt your feelings.
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Just because he said no to the movies doesn't really mean anything. Maybe he doesn't really want to go or maybe he just doesn't want to spend time with her. Who knows? You should ask him to go somewhere & just hang out. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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