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talking to him
okay, there's this guy and i really like him and a lot of people think that he likes me because he always hugs me and puts hisarms around me (in a nonpossessive way) and always comforts me when i'm down. but anyways. i don't have any classes with him and i have lunches with him everday but we don't sit at the same table or communicate that much. i mean like every other day he walks to class with me since my class is on the way to his. but anyways, he doesn't get on AIM alot so he basically never talks on there. winter break is starting soon and i can't imagine not talking to him for over 3 weeks! should i ask him for his phone number or something like that? and what are some things that i can do with him over winter break? like what can i do to hang out with him? i don't want to it be too forward or awkward so yeah.
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well you abvouisly get a good vibe so deff ask for his phone number there can be something there if you let there you know and you guys can hang out chill and if your nerves just say me and a few are going to a movie do you want to come or ask to the movies and say you just wanted to get out of the house you know make it known like he does that your just as intrested and see where it goes you can also you know go to the mall play games get a bite to eat and if he seems intersted than forget about awrkard your in the game go get him lol good luck i hope i helped
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yess you should defiantely ask for his number in a casual way. I'm in the same situation as you and im also planning to ask for his number when he actually gets online. =] some places you can go to is the movies, or amusement park or fun places in the beginning. Or maybe yall should hang out at a nearby starbucks or something like that. I personally think movies are great, you shouldnt start off asking him to just meet up with him. You should avoid awkward moments as much as possible at the beginning =] Movies would be great. Hope it helps! and i hope it works out right =]
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i definatly think asking for his number is good thing to do..because 3ish weeks is a long time to go without talking to him and you could definatly build on your friendship/relationship if you were to hang out over break..my advice would be to go to him before break starts (in school) and ask him what he's doing over break and if he'd wanna hang out with you..if there is something going on in ur area..like a holiday tradition or something you could always ask him to tag along with you..some ideas for things to do would be to..go sledding (if there is snow), go to a movie (but i wouldnt start off with that because movies dont provide much room for talking..unless you hang out before or after), concerts are always fun, i personally love the coffee house setting.if you drink coffee (or he does, you can get other things besides coffee at coffee shops) a lot of the times cool local artists perform at coffee houses and there is still room for talking while they are performing and the ambience is really nice...but there may not be any coffee houses like that around, just keep your eyes open though for the future, and things wont be awkrawd if you tell yourself they wont be...i think that awkrawdness is a state of mind, you only think something is awkward becasue you think that is what the other person is thinking,, ya no? so just go into it thinking that it'll be great and you'll give him no indications that its wierd and so it wont have a chance to be..i'll try to think of other things that you could do (some creative things perhaps?) and let you know...otherwise, let me know how things go and just know i'm always here for you <33
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