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Question Posted Saturday December 16 2006, 12:11 pm

My Ex & I have been done for overr 2 months.. but he calls me, emails me, IMs me, etc.. non-stop.. I don't really understand because we both decided to just be friends. & just called me & i find it kind of random.. What should I do? Why does my ex want to talk to me so much?


Sincerely,

ThinkI'mOvErIt!


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duudee_advicer answered Sunday December 17 2006, 5:11 pm:
Sounds like he hasn't gotten over you.
Talk to him and see if thats the case.
If you still like him, you can get back together if thats what he wants also. Other then that, you're just going to have to explain to him that 'friends' don't call, email, or im each other 24/7. But in a polite way of course :]

Good Luck<3

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WishingRealist answered Saturday December 16 2006, 4:57 pm:
My hunch is that he still likes you. Or he could just be afraid to even lose you as a friend and trying to hard (without realizing it). Have you tried asking him?

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russianspy1234 answered Saturday December 16 2006, 4:29 pm:
so you decided to be friends, and are now confused that your friend is calling you or emailing you? guess its not too uncommon, and my ex isnt as crazy as i though. it is of course possible that he wants to get back together, but maybe he just wants to be friends, like you said? thats what it was for me.

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dancergirl678 answered Saturday December 16 2006, 3:36 pm:
there is always the possibility that he wants to get backtogether with you. my bf broke up with me and said he just wanted to be friends and didn't want a relationship, but then he kept calling me asking me, messaging me over myspace, and hanging out and everything and eventually he asked for another shot (which of course i said yes). i mean, it could be possible that he really does want to be good friends and sees this as you being his best friend, but there is always the possibility that he wants to be more than that again. hope i helped =]

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karenR answered Saturday December 16 2006, 1:39 pm:
Don't you usually call, IM, email and talk to your other friends? Nothing unusual about that. When you feel like it respond and if you don't like it tell him to stop. :)

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