.I'm nothing amazing.
.Don't want to be.
.My birth certificate reads Christina.
.A very select few can call me Chrissy.
.I struggle between extroversion and introversion.
.Laughing at un-funny things is my specialty.
.I eat the green m&m's beofre all the others.
.Don't know why.
.I worry too much.
.I think too much.
.But never enough.
.I'm the one you can call at 3am and say nothing.
.I'm the one who will call you at 3am and talk all night.
.My friends are Uh-mazing.
.You can't convince me otherwise.
.The television and I don't meet.
.But movies are amazing.
.I read.
.And enjoy it.
.Drums are amazing.
.I say amazing too much.
.I am a realist.
.And a day dreamer.
.I am a photographer.
.Good or bad, that's for you to decide.
.Words most defintly are not my strong point.
.Awkward silences seem to be attracted to me.
.I don't dress for you.
.I am pretty independant.
.But I love people.
.My favorite animal is the panda bear.
.Yeah. I'm a nerd.
.Downtown=love.
.You'll come to find I repeat myself.
.Often.
.I wear my seatbelt.
.I'm a confusing girl.
.And I'll be the first to admit that.
.I flip pennies over so they are heads up.
.It's a habbit.
.I don't change for anyone but myself.
.Calling people in the morning just to say hello.
.It's my thing.
.I don't believe in love.
.But I think i found a boi who's changing my mind.
.Autumn is my favorite.
.Wanna go puddle jumping?.
.I am forgetful.
.Sorry in advance.
.I read to escape reality.
.I write my own zine.
.Ask me about it.
.Mountain dew is my energy source.
.Singing=not my thing.
.I'm irresponisible.
.My middle name is Rochelle.
.And I like it.
.It's French.
.Maybe why I like french fries.
.I'm not Cinderella.
.Although my life story lines deal me otherwise.
.Fairy tales are not real.
.I'm a realist.
.Don't like myself.
.I will eventually.
.I laugh.
.I smile.
.I'm Christina.
.I am a mess.
Gender: Female
Occupation: Daycare Teacher
Age: 17
Member Since: December 16, 2006
Answers: 13
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is there any way for me to show what groups i'm in on my myspace? i can't figure it out and it's bothering me (link)
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Sorry this may not be much help, but it added mine automatically. I look and didn't see a setting to hide them, they should be there on the left side, bottom, under "groups"
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can someone tell me honestley through expierience how much getting your belly button pierced hurts on a scale of 1-10. (link)
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Well if one is the least, then I would say a 3 or 4. But wait untill you get more answers...maybe that's just me! hehe good luck!
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I've always felt like I should have been a girl when I was born, and I feel wrong as a guy. I'm 16 and in 10th grade. I just feel like I can't tell my parents or friends, cause they would freak, and I just feel like I'm stuck living with this feeling. Anybody have any advice on what I should do? (link)
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Hey! You sent me a comment with your rating asking for advice on something else. Why don't you send me an email that way I don't have to post it for everyone to see: uneeknina@sbcglobal.net hope to hear from you soon!
If you don't feel comfortable telling anyone, then I would just leave it as is. But it sounds to me like you kind of want to get it out. Although I'm not sure if telling people will help you accomplish that. They may just ask you to see a therapist. Or they may be supportive. That, I cannot answer. But whatever decision you make, of course think through what you will say, and more importantly, WHY you are saying it. Tell whomever exactly how you feel, and why you are telling them: for them to get you help? for them to just listen? so they don't feel obligated one way or the other. Well, I hope I helped, and I hope it works out!
Christina
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welll. me and my boyfriend, [been together about 4 months.] known eachother for 4 years. we had sex today, and the condom broke! he admitted he cummed inside of me. this happend before, and i regreted it, but i took some of my moms emergency contraption pills & she's out! she doesn't know or anything though. i just got off my period today too. i contacted planned parenthood and tomorrow i'm going to this place near by. i just hope i'm not, and i'm hoping there's something they can give me?! i'm not sure if that's possible though. i'm suppperr young, and i wouldn't know how to tell my parents?! even though me and my boyfriend talked about this and he'd be sucha a [great father.] but yeah. any advice? :] (link)
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Well if it is the case, before you tell your parents, you need to make sure you are sure of what to say. Not only the whole "hey mom and dad...Im pregnant" thing, but prepare yourself with answers that you are sure of. If they ask if you are going to keep it or not or anything like that. Always ready yourself for different senerios. I know that was pretty vague, but it's the best advice I can give. You sound as if you are nervous, but capable no matter what the outcome is. Good luck!
I hope that helped,
Christina
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ok, this might seem like a weird question. But I just told my mum about this problem i'm having and she got really worried and told me i have to stop at once. it got me a bit freaked that i might have some mental problem or something, my mum just said so...
So, here's the problem: Every single thing i read and every single word i look at i have to read backwards. My mind just tells me to read it backwards and i can't stop. No matter how hard i try i can't stop myself. I know, I know, this is probably really stupid, but just thought id ask.
thanks (link)
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though you can spell, you still might have dislexia. there are different forms, and you sound a lot like what i have. i'm not saying you do! so don't worry. but ask a pro. they'll be able to help. okay?
hope that helped
Christina
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Hey my name is Rachel strickland and iam 17 years old and in the 11th grade at my highschool and for some reason i have these crying spells all the time like at least once a week and i've been taking lots of naps lately and i havn't been eating as much as i use to.
This has been going on ever since my dad died 5 years ago and i wondered if that could have anything to do with it.I've tried looking at photos and i've tried remembering the good time like my mom told me to do but that just makes me want to cry more.my dad and i have always been really close even though my parents divorced when i was 3 we was still close.
my mom just dosn't understand how i feel whenever i feel sad i go and take a nap or a bubble bath to relaz bur i arill am sad.The other day i was so depresed i didn't go to school becouse i knew if anybody sad one thing to me i would burst into tears so my mom let me stay home.
my blood pressure has also been really high the last time i had it chceked it was 150/86.
I also have panick attacks when i get really upset.
what should i do? (link)
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You basically took these words right out of my mouth. I have been experiencing the SAME things, unfortunatly, on a much more dramatic scale, and i finally just broke down and told my mom "I need help" she got me into a doc who sent me to a counsilor person...who helps a ton. I was however diagnosed with clynical depression, not to scare you, but you may want to do some research and then talk to someone about it. Please let me know how it turns out. I would greatly appreciate it!
Hope that helped
Christina
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okay for the past couple mouths i have no clue if my best friend L. I don't know if i think of mhim as just a friend or i have been in denial about me liking him ever since like 7th grade! I mean he's so sweet to me, he teases me all the time but when i get mad he'll imdeatly stop and say aww you know im just kidding. He's probably more of a friend then a lot of the girls in my grade. Should iI tell him or should I wait to see what his thoughts are about me?
~~~~~~~~U KNOW WHO! JM~~~~~~~~~~
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Hmm. Well if you two are as close as you seem to be, I would tell him. But truthfully, if you feel nervous about it or uncomfortable at all, then wait for him to either tell you first, or give you more of a hint at his feelings towards you...but don't tell him untill you figure out for sure how you feel.
goodness, im sorry. I hope that helped!
Christina
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ok so i jsut redid my room last year. and its all right. it would be alot prettier if i had a different bed. but i jsut bought my bed like a year or two ago i dont know how long ago it was. but i would feel bad if i sk to redo it. so if i did redo it i would pay for it. but where could i get the money? i would need about like 500 to 1000 dollars. what kind of fun and easy jobs could i get at 14 years old that wouldnt be my whole life? (link)
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Of course the ol babysitting job is there. That is an easy way to earn money. At your age though, I just got with my friends and did things like clean peoples houses (hey, find a big enough house and get 50 bucks easy) or yard-work. This works best with elderly people who can't do much, they need the work and you need the money.
hope this helped
Christina
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I'm 26 yr old male and my brother passed away a few years ago, leaving his son who is now 12. I'm am still very close to my nephew. I talk to him on the phone alot, email with him, etc. His mom is a terrible mom, who happens to have 2 other kids from 2 other men and wastes the social security money from my brother on cigarettes, alcohol, and frivilous items. She pays no attention to the boy and he stays with his grandma most nights because she doesnt wake him up in time for him to go go school. I'm afraid my nephew might soon turn to drugs, alcohol, etc. I've also noticed quite a lack of self esteem. I know that he has had 'girlfriends' but have yet to see them or meet them. His friends seem to be good, but I believe Im too old to be able to judge 12-13 year olds. He needs a man in his life and everytime Im in the area he always stays with me (I live 2 hours away). I plan to move back into the area soon and feel that he may want to live with me. Heres the questions:
1. How can I help to make sure he stays on the right path until I get there? I've already had the sex, drinking, pot, and cigarette talks with him.
2. How could I approach to his mother the possibility of him living with me, which I want to happen for his sake.
3. If he were to move in with me, would it be wrong to ask for the social security that HE should be getting for my brother's death so I can start a fund for him for college, car, etc.? (link)
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Well first, I can tell you that whatever you decide to do will more than likely succeed. You have determination and love for the boy. For the first question, there is nothing you can do to completly keep him away from the downfalls of this world. I know that isn't the first thing you wanted to hear, but it needs to be brought to attention. But you can continue to push on him your views on said subjects. You can talk to him, mentor him, and even put him in a plastic bubble, but the greatest way for him to realize it is to set an example. Remember, if he does end up trying any of those things, it's not necessarily your fault, remember that.
On the second question, approaching his mother, you very well might have to be blunt with her. Think about what you are going to say. And think through what actions you are willing to take if she says yes AND if she says no. Are you willing to take legal action? If you feel like he is not going to have a great life there, you have a great chance of gaining custody of him. However, if you are trying to avoid going that far, just be sure you give her many reasons why you should, and why she should let you. (yeah they are different. haha).
Lastly, No I do not feel it would be wrong to ask for the social security. In fact, I would suggest it. It is rightly his.
I really hope I helped
Christina
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13/f -okay, heres the problem! I love my mom (of course) but me and her get into SOOO many fights, and I know its common for teens to get into fights with their moms, but she always starts it!! I will just say something, and she will think that i'm yelling at her and be like "rar!" and then i'll be like UGH and then we will just ignore each other for the rest of the day (sounds childish right? EXACTLY!!) Also, my mom is such a hipocryte (dunno how to spell that)!!! She will do the same things I do, and then i get mad at her!! CAN YOU PLEEEEASE TRY TO HELP ME BECAUSE I DONT WANNA FIGHT AS OFTEN WITH HER BECAUSE THIS GOES ON LIKE EVERYDAY!!! (link)
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Pretty much every teenage girl, myself including, understands what you are going through. My mom is pretty much the same way still, and I am 17. However, through the years I have realized that though I don't intend to, I do have a tone in my voice that sends the wrong signal. And I did it for so long, even when I don't have that tone, my mom still just expects the worst and yells at me anyways. Maybe you had that once? I am not sure, but if that is the case, continue with the way you are handling things now and eventually she will see. But other than that, you may hate this next few sentances, try talking to her about it. Maybe not right away, but find a time that you both are "calm" and just bring it up. Dont try and blame it soley on her, and try not to get deffensive if she blames it on you. Hold your temper and talk it out. Even if the conversation doesn't end as you want it to, she will more than likely see that you are trying to handle it in a mature manner, and maybe she will ease up a bit. Just don't give up, okay? I hope that helped.
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in another question someone partly asked how easily guys get jealous...but it wasn't really answered. Because as a girl, i know that sometimes it can be very easy to get jealous if your crush is flirting or giving attention to another girl. guys, can you answer this one?
thnx:) (link)
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I am not a guy, but please hear me out. All my close friends are guys and well, I might be able to help. Well, it is hard to exactly answer it, beacuse everyone is different. But truthfully, guys can get very jealous. A lot of them. They may not show it the same way, but they do. You know how you see in movies that a girl will go out with their crush's best friend or whatever to make him jealous (I wouldn't do that, but yeah haha) that is for the most part true. But I do have to say, there are quit a few decent guys out there whom understand a girl has a life other than him. It all depends on how they act. Hope that helped.
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My Ex & I have been done for overr 2 months.. but he calls me, emails me, IMs me, etc.. non-stop.. I don't really understand because we both decided to just be friends. & just called me & i find it kind of random.. What should I do? Why does my ex want to talk to me so much?
Sincerely,
ThinkI'mOvErIt! (link)
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My hunch is that he still likes you. Or he could just be afraid to even lose you as a friend and trying to hard (without realizing it). Have you tried asking him?
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Ok, I don't know if this is in the right catogorey or not but oh well. I have been sooo deppresed latley. I just don't know if i can deal with it. i need some help, i can't talk to my friends and i don't want to talk to my parents. i've even talked about killing myself. i really want to do that so i don't have to deal with my huge problems anymore. what do i do?
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I have been in your shoes, dear, and actually, I am there now. However, I am 17 and I got so bad that I did try to kill myself...obviously my parents now know, and so do a few of my close friends. I am seeing a doctor, and she helps a whole lot. I am not saying you have to say anything, but I really don't want it to get that bad for you. It's really hard to get out of once it gets to a certain point. I would suggest mabybe reading up on it? Try writing down when you are feeling crummy and how you got out of it. If it gets too often, consider saying something. It may not be the easiest thing to do, or the most comfortable, but in the long run, it could very well be the best decision.
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