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in love with her religeon
hi, okay im 15/m and theres this girl at school i like, shees a Jehovah's Witness (im not),and im sure she likes me too, but wen i asked her out she said no, it was like really confusing for me because we like each other.i really like her but i cant think why she wont go out with me, we tell each other ALL our problems and everythings going fine in her life, so can someone plz tell me what i should so next or have any insight as to why she wont go out with me. by the way, shees really into her religeon
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i used to think the same way you do, but ive realized, girls dont talk that way to guys they like as more tha a friend. sorry dude, you need to find a girl youve barely talked to, and ask her out.
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Well, let's put it this way:
A girl at my school once turned down a guy because God told her not too.
She's obviously a virtuous religious-freak type of girl. This will interfere with relationships because they dont want one, but they lead guys on BAD BAD BAD. She's probably sending off the message that she likes you, but you can't have her because of her religion. It's all a mind play. I know this might sound hard, but she won't give in to it, so if i were you, i'd try finding someone who... if they liked me, would go out with me.
maybe, if you went out with someone else and moved on, she finally see what she missed and you'd be happier off without her.
sometimes friendship is the best way to go.
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It might be that she just likes you as a friend. If thats the case, still talk to her a lot, because friendship is just important as boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. Just remember that if she really does like you, but the fact that she is a Jehovah's Witness is keeping her from going out with you, don't convert your beliefs to hers or compromise whatever you may believe in just so she'll go out with you.
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