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guy friends and boyfriends
I'm a junior in hs, and i have really good guy friends. i would never cross the line with my group of friends since it would make everything compilcated and a huge mess, plus i know them too well to like thme in that way, but i met this guy outside the group who's recently started hanging out withthe smae group of guys as me and of course i happene to like him...i avoid football nights, going to games with the group now just so i wouldnt have to be around him...i dont know what to do. everytime we hang out together with the guys...i screw things up. i'm either in the girly mode overdoing the flirting with anyone and eveyone or one of the guys cause i'm overcompensating, and tryin to cover up the fact i like him, or i'm trying to be normal with everyone resulting in my other friends ditching us, trying to be the great wingmans they are...ahh this whole thing is drving me crazy since i'm a really different in diff. situations. its not like i'm not being myself, its just i have different sides to me. when i'm with guys, i'm a guy. once a blue moon when i'm out with girls, i act girly and flirt with guys (that i dont know anyways), i dont want him to think that i dont like him or that i'm just flirting with everyone, but i get super social when i'm awkward.
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Wow, I have to say--we're alike. Haha I have one too many guy friends and not enough girl friends and it's hard when you just want to be friends with the guy friends you have just to have your crush join the group of guy friends to complicate things.
Well, this is the major result--guys talk too so if you like him, don't cover it up and don't hold it back. Just flirt with this guy and if he doesn't like you in that way..well that's the kinks in life. But anywhos, flirt just a little with him. Like smile at him, look at him (not in a stalkerish way), ask him to give u a hug or lend u his jacket if it's cold (Hint: it doesn't have to me XD), rest your head on his shoulder and what not. BUt don't go in to "Oh my gosh, so like erm, yeah" mode. haha.
When one of your guy friends say "Ohh you like him: or something like that, don't say "No" because it will get to your crush and it'll just mess it up. So just say "Your point?" or "So what?" or just nonchalantlly reply and make it a vague reply--make sure it doesnt say yes or no.
So you know, we're girls and we have to have crushes00even the most tomboyish ones00 like me =D haha. So chillax. It's alright for your guy friends to suspect it. be cool around them and maybe even suggest this guy to go and watch a movie with you...hey, it's 2006--girls can ask guys out!! HAha good luck!
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