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i need help, and FAST PLEASE (sry its so long!)
14/F
hi!! okay, so i want your honest opinion and what you would do for yourself, not the same old, just go for it and if he says no, then that's the worst that can happen.....i need a REAL solution. (Please ^_^ )
so, i REALLY like this guy, (i even dream that we r dating sometimes--scary huh??) but i don't know if he knows i exist...literally. He's a sophmore, and i'm a freshman. He's on the basketball team (he's been on varsity since frosh year), so he's really good. I am on the volleyball team. He is 6'8", i am 5'2". HUGE difference. I live in a place where the year and hight make a pretty big differnce. :( so, what to do. I've like this guy for over a year, but i don't know if he's noticed me becuase....well....i'm shy, SHORT, younger, and well, not in his circle of friends (although my bro is the manager of the bball team he's on) <-- but my bro won't introduce me to him, i've even asked and begged before.)
I always make sure to sit on the bench right behind him during his games...its actually really fun!! The only problem is, at the games, in lunch, and in the halls are the only times i see hime. Oh yea, i forgot to mention, that when we are standing for the national anthem, he's on the floor, and i'm a few rows up in the bleachers, and he's STILL taller than me. (in case you can't tell, i'm a little self concious about my height.)
I don't know what to do to get his attention or to make him even look at me/talk to me. I'm really head over heals for this guy. Can someone (guys too please) give me advice other than, just go for it and talk to him first, something that a SHY person would really do please!!
Thanks!!
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First of all sweetie, don't be ashamed about your height AT ALL. I'm 27/m 6ft tall and I abolutely love "short" women! Most men do, trust me on this. You have a unique situation in this case, and a good opportunity; I'll tell you why... It's a HUGE turn-on to men to be approached by women; it doesn't happen to us very often because women are scared to be seen as the "aggressive" type. My advice to you is to make the first move; if he's a decent guy then he should respond warmly. You have a common interest in sports, so there's your ice-breaker. I understand you're shy, so an easy way to work around that is to do something nice for him like hold a door open or pick up a paper he dropped, something very subtle so you won't seem aggressive but you'll immediately be his center of attention, if only for a minute.
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Well you can put a little flirt in your game, that is sexy. And tell your brother to stop being such a dick i mean come on! what kind of ass hole doesnt love their sister, anyways. I (personaly) think short girls are further up on the sexy scale and there you have an advantage. I am going to tell you what you didnt want to hear also, GO FOR IT! hees a guy, ur a girl, and i have no life! Screw it! there are billions of guys and alot are sexy (like me) and if this guy says no then well hees not even your type! get to know him become his friend, then ask him out
hope it helped
nathan (srry bout the long ass answere)
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