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okay so..this is probably going to be long. sorry!. but anyways umm one day at school i was walking and then this guy was walking with his friend (btw were all in the same grade(10th) as far as i know) so i was walking by them and the guy pushed his friend into me..?( i dont know why) and then again today i was walking to my bus and this other friend of the guy just came up to me and like hugged me, his friend was like im cold then he hugged me.( came out of nowhere, theyre really random) i dont know why i dont even know the guy and his friends. it seems to me that theyre like picking on me =[ and i dont know why. i hate being picked on this has never happened to me or are they just kidding around? but why would they joke around i dont even know their names and who they are. do they seem like theyre picking on me or because one of the guys friend like me or the guy likes me? but i mean i dont know why they would like(crush on me) me im average looking im not pretty and tall. im just average an average looking girl, average height, im quiet, not TOO quiet, people say that im really nice =] i dont know why theyre doing this they dont know me. please help cause i dont know what random thing theyre going to do next. i dont wanna be embarassed i mean i dont wanna tell my parents or my counselor about this cuz it will cause drama and i hate being in dramas. please please help me!! theyre so immature cause were in 11th grade.
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(No problem if its long) They are probably just being jackasses. Do you see them alot? Have you ever talked to them before, even if just like a few words before they started being dicks? They probably are the types of guys that are just jjerks and mess around with people and try to be funny. If you never saw them before this started happeneing, they most likely pick on other people the same as jokes. If you see them alot before, and they ask you for hugs and stuff, maybe they are just trying to be flirty but still give off a jackass kind of vibe. About being imbarrassed, sometimes you just got to laugh it off. When I trip or do something stupid, instead of like geting all red i just start cracking up. Its alot easier then beating yourself up cause your imbarrassed. If this has only happened a few times then you dont reallyyyy have to tell your parents or someone else unless you want to. But if they start to do more jerkish things to do you should either tell someone (if its really really buggin you to the point where you want to), or just try to not go by them or be around them for a little. Hope this helpedd
Katie
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Haha, trust me, guys will be and always are going to be slightly immature no matter what age they are. Especially if they're still in High School. They were probably just joking around. Guys love to grab attention from girls and goof around and show that they're funny and daring infront of the guys.
It may be that one of their guy friends likes you, and just because you think you're "average" looking might not mean you really are! You may be very pretty, and the guys are catching onto it. Trust me, if they were picking on you, tehy'd be insulting you or something not hugging you and pushing guys into you ( which is normally signs of flirting anyways ).
I have this current situation somewhat. My brother whose now in college left a very popular uh, name back at the high school and now that I'm in it, all his friends who are still in high school call me "youthful ( my last name )" ALL THE TIME. No matter where I am, the mall, the movies, school, AT MY HOUSE, I always hear some of his friends if they're near me calling em that name and they'll talk to me and be like,"whats up, youthful? how're you doing? thats goooodd." in sort of a joking voice. They find it hysterical, so it seems to me sometimes like they're making fun of me too, but I just figure it's guys being guys, and they're finding it hilarious so whatever. I've learned to poke fun at it. And I start laughing whenver they call me it or I turn around and am like,"yessss? :]" so maybe start to hug them back or crack a joke every once in awhile. Get better accquainted with them so it doesn't seem as weird because you don't know them or anything.
Who knows? You might make some new friends out of the situation and maybe even a new boyfriend if you're interested in any of them. :)
I hope I helped.
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