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Im sooo upset!
ok this is getting me really really mad. Every1 says I really like a guy who i trust will all my heart and I think hes starting to believe it and its like getting me really upset. Like, I think of him as a really good friend and i tell him alot but i dont like him. I know your gonna say calm down but like its sooo annoying when every time i go to talk to him their like "oooh Mary" and im getting so annoyed and like i know he doesnt like me. So he used to hang around with us alot but not anymore and hes starting to ignore me and when i try to talk to him in private hes like anything you say you can say to any1 else around here. Im like "i can't" but then he gets mad at me. Its like im loosing a friend that I REALLY wanna keep....also like i dont react ill just say no i dont and thats it but he reacts and just like leaves as soon as they start. I was really mad at him day about it so i tried to avoid him and when he came over to us we talked and stuff and he said something mean so i kicked him hardish and he like kicked me lightly back and stuff so I playfully kicked him back then he like pushed me like not a quick push like the one were its like puhing ba ck so i pushed back so i wouldnt fall in tthe snow and he just like snapped and yelled Mary stop flirting with me already!
I love him sooo much as a friend but now everythings starting to fall apart. I admit I flirt with him but I can't help it...How can I get him back to his old self?
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Everyone else that teases you are just board and thinking lets pick on her she seems easy so don't listen to them!! dont let it get to you, i no i must be hard with your friend he is getting effected by the teasing that is why he acting this way, keep hanging out with him just flirt less intill the teasing dies down.
Goodluck, Love Emily
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I;m sorry that my advice didn't work out but if he wants to go around believing rumors instead of his best friend, he's not the best person in the world and if he gets scared of a paper and graffite on it, that's his problem.
Well, first you need to tell your friends to just stop because they're being immature about this and breaking a really good friendship that you want to keep. Write this guy a note saying that you really want to keep this good friendship but people that are saying that you like him are ruining it and that you only like him as a friend and no more than that.
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If I were you I'd talk to your friends first. Tell them you are loosing him as a friend because as the lies they are saying.
I would be sooo mad with them if I were you.. I would tell them to go up and apologise to this guy and say they were only joking and didn't mean to cause anything between you two!
Then again i think it's wrong of your guy friend to act the way he is.. thats wrong of him too! If he's your friend he should trust and talk to you about it not run away from it! Perhaps get him on his own away from everyone else and talk to him too! Before you really do lose him!
Hope I helped :)
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