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18/f
I met this 24 year old guy at the dog park. We totally hit it off, and we talked for two and a half hours. After that, I added him on MySpace, and then he randomly messaged me one day like amonth later, asking how I was, how I've been, and telling me he'll have more free time in the next few weeks (he owns his own business and works a LOT) So, I messaged him back, blah blah blah, we made plans, hung out again, etc. During that meeting/date thing, he persuaded me to start a doggie daycare business. Now I've been talking to him about that lately, and he's helping me through this whole starting a business thing. He's sort of my business advisor. Anyway.
I like him so much. It's one of those awesome romantic type crushes, as opposed to one of the sexual ones. But, as it is to be expected, he's SO much more mature than any other guy I've liked. So I don't really know how to approach the subject (with guys my age and younger, you just sort of bug them and tease them) without ruining what we have. Since he messaged me that time, totally out of the blue, do you suppose I have a chance? Do (normal, not just looking for sex) 24 year olds ever even consider dating 18 year olds? What should I do?!
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I think you probably have a chance with him, but try not to get your hopes too high. It's certainly possible that he's interested, but keep in mind that his difference in age means a likely difference in priorities. Anyway, yes I think you have a chance, and I think the age difference isn't a big issue at this point because you're 18. Also, the fact that you are starting your own business is likely to make you stand out from others your age, and it's also something that the two of you have in common. As for what you should do, I wish could help you. I would hope that a 24-year-old man who owns his own business would be assertive enough to ask you out, but you never know. I suppose my advice is to do what you can to put yourself out there without being too obvious - message him on myspace, ask how he's doing, possibly suggest hanging out sometime.
Best of luck!
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If you are interested in him, and don't pick up on any suspicious behavior, then keep on talking to him. Sometimes you do have to be careful with older guys, but not all the time. But something I would advise here... Let HIM be the one to make the first move. From the looks of things, he does seem genuinely interested in you. However... the thing about him not contacting you for a month right off the bat is a little strange. Just my thought, though...
Yes, there are some very nice guys out there who are a bit older than a girl that they are interested in. An older guy can be more responsible than others, so that's a plus. Be careful, though.
Best advice I can offer is to let him make the first move. Watch for suspicious behavior and keep an open mind to things. He sounds like a nice guy, though! Good luck!
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He sounds pretty busy, but if he ever gets away I think you have as good a chance as anyone.
I don't think the age difference is that big of a deal. If he is just starting his business though, it may get in the way at times (as you already know!)
Just take it slow and don't be rushed into anything.
Do that and you will know if he is sincere or not.
Good luck! :)
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