I have a best frined in the whole world. I'm 13 and we litterly grew up together. But she had this friend a while ago who was her 2nd best friend then hurt her badley nad then hated her. But now she forgave her and there close freinds again but not as close as befor. But i hate that girl she hurt my Best freind and i could never forgive her again. But should i be frineds with the girl since there friends? because i dnt think i can forgive her. should I or should i not>
LikeItsMandaaa answered Saturday December 2 2006, 6:32 pm: well i think that if your best friend thought it would be ok to forgive her than you probly should too but at the same time make shure you watch out for your best friend [ LikeItsMandaaa's advice column | Ask LikeItsMandaaa A Question ]
xY0M0MMAx answered Friday December 1 2006, 7:15 pm: Okay, I feel so freaking sorry for you.
There's this monster of a girl who I HATED, (and I still do)and her and my best friend are good friends.
Everytime I would go over there, THAT STUPID FREAK WOULD ANNOY THE HELL OUT OF ME!
I'm sorry to say this, but you're gonna have to forgive her.
Just try your best to ignore her unless you absolutely HAVE to give a response to something she says. Make a diary thing on the computer and come home and write in it about what she did that day to piss you off. It's better to take your anger out in it than on her. [ xY0M0MMAx's advice column | Ask xY0M0MMAx A Question ]
Short_N_Punky answered Friday December 1 2006, 7:03 pm: Usually there is only one of me giving advice but today there is two me and my friend. Personally if you feel that you dont like her and she hurt your friend badly your instincts are perfectly honest. Just because your friend is friends with someone doesnt mean that you have to be friends with them to. You dont have to be friends twith the same people your friends are with. I have a friendwho is friends with this girl and i hate her guts and she knows that and accepts that. You should tell your friend and tell er how you feel about the situation and if she is a ture friend to you she will understand and wont hang out with this girl the same time your hanging out with her. [ Short_N_Punky's advice column | Ask Short_N_Punky A Question ]
looloo12 answered Friday December 1 2006, 6:49 pm: you should try. its great you care about your friend that much. you shuld at least try, things mite be awkward if you both hate each other.
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