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feel so guilty!
Im a girl, i dont have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and as i said before, im not 100% sure im gay. The problem is, everytime my parents or anyone else mentions guys or me dating, i start to feel realy sick and feel like im lying to them. What should i do coz' i don't want to say nothing but how can i maybe make myself feel better?
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You could always be bisexual. And then telling people would make you feel better. Most likely anyway. But you could relax, maybe listen to music, watch a movie, write a journal, or even flirt with some cute guys and girls! Haha, flirting with guys always makes me happier
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The other guy got it right, =]
just say you don't have time to have a boyfriend - maybe they will think your studying a lot more often :P - or if ther like active parents and want u to be dating some1 just say your not interested in them and tell em there not cute enough for you or something, but if you are dating someone and you don't want them to know, then do what the person below said, - jst shake your head and say no, feel a little more confident when you talk to them.. i dont think u know for sure about if you are gay or not, a lot of girls i know go through a bisexual stage, and rarely do they turn out to be lesbian. just experiment a little to find out, you will know when the time comes.
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It makes you feel uncomfortable talking to your parents about things like that. I don't feel confortable talkign to my parents baout anyhting really unless it is school or something. I used to get nervous all the time to. The best way to know what kind of people you want to date is to find someone you like and hang out with them. If you feel uncomfortable around guys and like to hang out with more girls. And if you don't really think about guys in a way then you will know. Sometimes it helps to take a couple of days off and go on vacation or to a place where you can think and you will figuare out what you really what. People who don't know what they want need to get away form all the distractions to figuare it out and whatever you decide i am sure your family will understand. You have to feel that communication and when you do then it is the time to tell them what is going on.
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you may get nervous when ask
you these questions. or you
might just not wanna talk about
it with your parents or your
family. This sometimes still happens
to me just because it's my family -
they dont need to know exactly what
goes on in my life. Next time when
they ask you if you have a boyfriend
just say nahh and shake it off. Hope
I helped :] Inbox me if you have
more questions.
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