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I need help. I do not know what to do and no matter what choise i make i will end up hurting someone. So heres the story of my life...
I Love this kid named Mark* and well he broke up with me planning on getting back together with me, and after 3 weeks this kid named Brad* asked me out and I said yes, dont get me wrong i do like him. But when it comes down to it, Mark is the one i want to be with. Mark and Brad are totally two different people. Mark is kind of bad ass... different, stubborn at times, knows what he wants and doesnt let people stomp all over him. And Brad well, hes sweet, caring, romantic, yeah sounds like the ideal guy right? BUT my heart keeps going mack to Mark and i like the bad ass kind of guy, and also mark has lied to me in the past and hurt me, but i just cant seem to let go of him... and i feel like if i leave brad i will be alone because i dont know if mark still likes me and even if he does i dont know if things could ever be the same again, and if i stay with Brad i feel like i am gonna hurt him for me being with him and wanting to be with mark... ahh i dont know im confused, I like brad i do... but i like mark more... but i guss i am trying to convinse myself that if i stay with brad my feeling for him will grow..... i dont know what to do.. any advise?
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Stop leading Brad on. You're going to do this for a while; thinking, "Well if we keep dating, I will like him more" and then you won't, but he WILL like you more. Dump the poor kid.
It's ok to be single. Trust me.
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You want what you can't have, and you are taking Brad for granted while fantasizing about Mark who dumped you, remember? The moment you dump Brad, you will realize that you are throwing away a good guy for a fantasy. Mark cares only about Mark and will always be selfish...I know bad boys make our hearts skip a beat, but they come with a heavy pricetag and later tears. Give a nice guy a chance, and he will eventually make your heart skip a beat, too...without later ripping it out and stomping on it on the way to another prospect.
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You've given Mark a chance and he blew it by lying to you then breaking up with you. He's going to be bad new in the long run and you probably don't want to get to personal with him. Brad on the othe hand seems sweet and nice. Give him the chance that you gave Mark and who knows, you may just find out that Brad is better than Mark
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