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making the move
14/f
ive been going out with this kid for about eight months (we've liked eachother for over a year) and we still havent kissed yet. now, ive never been kissed before, so im not sure how to make the move. I've waited long enough for him to make it, but he hasnt. help please :]
oh yeah and we usually hangout with a bunch of people, if that helps.
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this sounds pretty much like how dating is with me right now and im 15! lol (sigh....lame I know but wutcha gunna do?) So my best friend went out with a guy for about 6 months and they never kissed. It could just be that your boyfriend is nervous, which is understandable. But, you do have the right to kiss after going out for 8 months. So... if you are extremely comforable with him I would say do this:
"hey (insert name) weve been going out for a while and I like you ALOT. Do you wanna....kiss maybe?" (then maybe giggle or wink? thad b cute I think)
If you arent comfortable with doing that then try this:
when you are at a movie(group or alone either works) hold hands and maybe snuggle up to him alittle(dont lilke throw yourself all over him....yet ;) )
Then turn twords him and look at his face. Smile at him and maybe lean in just alittle bit, this will give him the go ahead, and maybe he will kiss you!
Hope i helped, drop one in my inbox if you need more help. I got other ideas!
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hang out with him alone cause he is more likely to kiss ou around no one then with other people
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Oii.. he's probably shy and he probably doesn't know when is the right time to make a move. Maybe you should js invite him somewhere where its only you & him, and you can take it from there right ?
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Heres what I did to help myself in this sitch;
[Pull him aside if you're in a crowd]
Put your forehead against his, and just look into his eyes. My boyfriend and I do this and we just laugh at how silly we look. THEN, put your hand on his cheek and just tilt your head to kiss him. You can lead to making out this way or stop at a simple kiss, the choice is yours.
Or, I've always wanted to try this:
[Pull him aside again, PDA is not necessary]
Stand right infront of him and say "Finish this ryhme, Miss Me miss me now you gota .. " Hopefully he'll say 'kiss me' Then say "I'd be happy to" and .. kiss him. You can go this way if you want to give him a little heads up!
Good Luck <3
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