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BFFL Drama
So, my best friend and I were hanging out the other day. He asked if I thought my sister had had sex with her boyfriend. I said "yes" and he called her a slut. He might have been joking, I'm not sure. So I was pissed (justifyibly, yes?). I was talking to my sisters boyfriend, and he mentioned him. I said "yeah I'm not very happy with him right now" and he said "why" and after much persuasion, and a threat to punch him in the face, I told him exactly why. Now my best friend is denying it, and not letting me explain. Who's at fault? Is it me, for telling Brandon, or my friend, for calling my sister a slut, or is it mine for telling him yes in the first place (and taking him seriously)?
Should I just ignore him and let him come around, or should I call him/go to his house/write him a note/etc? I miss him so much already and it's only beem 2 days :(
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Hes an ass to even be joking about your family like that. I wasnt right, even though you probably shouldnt have told him that your sister had sex. I say call him, or meet him in person and apologize, but tell him you were angry about him calling your sister a slut.
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i don`t you shoulda told you sister`s business in the first place.. and i dont thnk it was his place to call her a slut either.. i thnk oyu should write a note if you cant call. or go over theree. i hope y`all can work it outt.
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A bit of everything. It was none of your friend's business in the first place to ask such a private question about your sister, and it was not your place to give him an answer. He was being a jerk for calling her a slut and more of a jerk for denying it. You should have kept it to yourself though, and not gossiped further to Brandon. Now your sister has probably heard that someone called her a slut...real nice. You and your friend need to learn from this, and make the appropriate apologies to your sister. These little mistakes can be avoided in the future if you remember to set boundaries when it comes to privacy, especially someone else's. Now take care of your part of it.
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