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So, my best friend and I were hanging out the other day. He asked if I thought my sister had had sex with her boyfriend. I said "yes" and he called her a slut. He might have been joking, I'm not sure. So I was pissed (justifyibly, yes?). I was talking to my sisters boyfriend, and he mentioned him. I said "yeah I'm not very happy with him right now" and he said "why" and after much persuasion, and a threat to punch him in the face, I told him exactly why. Now my best friend is denying it, and not letting me explain. Who's at fault? Is it me, for telling Brandon, or my friend, for calling my sister a slut, or is it mine for telling him yes in the first place?
Should I just ignore him and let him come around, or should I call him/go to his house/write him a note/etc? I love him to death, and I have about 7 hours worth of comics at his house, if that makes any difference.
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Since you know him so well, you probably could have predicted that reaction. Then again, maybe not (as Lumiere would say). Your reaction is definitely justified! I can't stand the word "slut". Joking or not, it's beyond offensive. Talk to him face to face. You gotta say to him that you won't take that--no matter what his opinion is, she's your sister and you're not going to just let him insult her! You shouldn't, anyway. I don't think he's going to come around unless you make sure he knows you have a problem with it.
(And if you will permit me to insult your best friend, he's a pussy for denying it. Forgive me if that was out of line.)
*explosion of hearts...and duck pizza!*,
Little Washu
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