ok well there this girl i really really like... but she got a b/f but thats really not the problem because shes not to close and about to break up eith him ...well i tlak to her all the time but she acts like she dont really like me and if she does i really dont see it ...hoever some of her friends and her b/f all told me she does so i really dont no who to believe cause i really like her but i ask her to snowball and she like wait till it gets closer cause i think she wants to go with another guy so what do i do cause i really just want her to be happy!! 17/m
DepthofHeart answered Tuesday November 21 2006, 6:50 pm: If more than one person who hangs out with her says she likes you it's possible that that may be true. Or maybe she doesn't want to start a new relationship right after breaking up with her boyfriend, maybe she needs time to think. Also a lot of girls like playing hard to get. [ DepthofHeart's advice column | Ask DepthofHeart A Question ]
ductape_n_roses answered Tuesday November 21 2006, 4:27 pm: Um first, she's got a bf and whether she likes him or not, that's the first red flag that should yell off limits at him.
Give her some time after she breaks up with her bf because no girl wants to be seen with another guy right after she breaks it off with another one.
When she does break up, say in a joking way "You need to reserve the spot for me to be your date to snowball" or whatever.
Give her at least a week and ask her out and if she declines...well sorry about that. But don't ever trust what others say about someone else's feelings. It's not reliable.
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