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soo annoying
ok so this is sooo annoying...me and my bf *who we will call adam* have been goin out for about 2 months right? and everything is fine with us. but there is this girl *who is a freshman* and she's like, always around because...i dunno she just is. well i'll be kinda off and talkin with my best friend and i'll look over at "adam" and his best friend "jake" and that freshman is standing there looking at us, and as soon as we look over there, she starts trying to flirt with them both and then when she stops she glares at us. i'm thinkin *ok b***h, i'm already with "adam" and you're like 4 years younger than him, he's not interested so back off* and then when me and "adam" are holding hands or kiss or something she like, starts talkin to him about needing to do something like go to a concert or whatever and O MY GOSH it just makes me sooo mad!! she's not a threat to our relationship or anything, but i just wish i could find a way to get her to back off. this is also effecting my best friend because her and "adam's" best friend are hitting it off, and this stupid freshman makes it so that when she is around, they can't talk much. what do i do?
all of us are almost 18, and she's like...i dunno 14 or 15?
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She is doing it to get your goat, to make you mad, and to watch you squirm. She knows it upsets you, thus, she gets a kick out of seeing you get upset. To her, it is pure satisfaction that you are letting her push your buttons.
If you stop reacting or 'noticing' her flirting, she will very soon tire of doing it. Take her fun away from her, because that is all it is, a fun little game.
Remember, she is younger than you, and therefore less mature. You can show her without saying or doing a thing how confident you are in your boyfriend's feelings for you by not getting upset about her flirting. That is all she wants, really.
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Making her mad or being rude to her will not help the situation. She'll just try harder the make you more mad.
I suggesting getting "Adam" to POLITLEY tell her he's got a girlfriend and quite frankly isn't interested.
It sounds to me alot like a big time pathetic crush, those pass quickly. Just wait it out if Adam isn't willing to talk to her about it.
Good Luck <3
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Since you're all around 18, just tell her to get lost. In my time, we respected the seniors in our school, no, we were all scared like hell of them.
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You can try and convince your boyfriend that she is every bit as annoying as you think she is - trash talk the hell out of her to him!
If he's really not interested (and doens't even like her) in her she'll probably go find somebody elses boyfriend to stalk.
Don't worry about your boyfriend talking less with "jake" - not your problem. And then just make sure to ignore her completely
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