Question Posted Saturday November 18 2006, 6:55 pm
Hey well i have been dating my boyfrind for 1 year and 2 mounths now and i have never had a proplme with him hanging out with his friends, but his friends smoke and stuff like that. A cuple of weeks ago me and this girl got into a HUGE argument and she is going around saying she wants to beat my ass and stuff like that and this girl has been calling my boyfriend and telling him stuff like that. This girl unfourtunally is my boyfriends bestfriend's girlfriend so i sorta told my boyfriend its me or his bestfriend only caue of his girlfriend but i really do want to hang out with his friends agin without telling him not to and with out that bitch of a girlfrind marc has... what should i doo
sorry if this doesnt make ne sence im still pissed about the whole thing
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SecretBoy89 answered Friday November 24 2006, 10:33 pm: Well first of all, making your boyfriend CHOOSE between his gf and his best friend is not a good thing to do... That makes him think "if she makes me choose between this, who KNOWS if she'll keep making me choose in the future about everything." You should apologize about making him choose and just talk to him and tell him WHY you told him that harsh remark. Tell him how you feel about that girl and maybe he can talk to his best friend... That would be much easier than making him "choose". I hope this helps you. [ SecretBoy89's advice column | Ask SecretBoy89 A Question ]
advice_expert101 answered Sunday November 19 2006, 3:45 pm: i think you should tell your boyfriend that you just really want this girl to stop. i mean i dont think it was right to say me or your best friend because sometimes... people tend to pick there best friend. you should talk to him about the girls behavoir and try to avoid any more possible fights.
if you wanted to.. i mean it might not work out to good. you could call the girl and try to talk out everything but it really depends how you think she will act.
hope i helpedd. [ advice_expert101's advice column | Ask advice_expert101 A Question ]
Raeden answered Sunday November 19 2006, 7:29 am: I think you shouldn't have told your boyfriend to choose between you and his best friend. It's not his best friend's fault that you and his girlfriend got into an argument, he is not responsible for his girlfriend's behavior. I think you'd best leave both your boyfriend and his best friend out of this. Choosing between your lover and your best friend is nearly impossible, so don't make your boyfriend do that.
About this girl, you don't have to like her, she doesn't have to like you, to both hang out with the same group. If you two just ignore eachother it doesn't have to bother either of you. Good luck. [ Raeden's advice column | Ask Raeden A Question ]
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