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I'm scared. They seem so real.


Question Posted Saturday November 18 2006, 5:54 pm

I have two cousins, a boy who is 12 and a girl who is 14. Their parents wont get a divorce but they hate each other and are both alcoholics and smoke, but refuse to get help. When their dad comes home, which he only does about twice a week, he screams at their mom (Who is usually drunk at the time.) and at my cousins. Normally, he throws and breaks things.
This past week I've been having terrible dreams and waking up sweating in the night. I remember parts of them, but in one of them their dad had just walked in and was already screaming at my aunt and my cousins. He began to get very angry and threw things at my aunt, who was crying. Then he went over to my cousins and started yelling at them. He was hitting them and throwing things at them. They were both screaming and crying.
In another dream, he had locked my aunt in a room and left her there. He then got a gun and found my cousins. I remember there was a shooting sound or something, but then I woke up.
The dreams seem so real. I've been at my cousin's house before when my uncle has been drunk and screaming and throwing things so that makes it even more real because I know he can do those things when he's angry and drunk.
I'm scared that he might actually do something that could really hurt them. I don't know what to do. I want the dreams to stop and to know that my cousin's are safe. They wont answer their phone.
Is there some way that I can stop these dreams and/or find out if they are okay or not?


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TinkerbellsHelp answered Sunday November 19 2006, 8:38 pm:
You need to tell someone ASAP. Your aunt or your cousins could get seriously hurt. It sounds like the parents need to be put through counseling and a little AA and the kids might need some counselling too. But you really really need to tell a parent or an other relative or a teacher or a counsellor.

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GrandmaBettyLouis answered Sunday November 19 2006, 1:20 am:
Oh my God.
These dreams could be premonititons. I really REALLY advise you to go to your mom/dad/gardian/teacher/grandma/grandpa/whoever can help you with this situation. This is very serious. Dreams happen for a reason. This family needs MAJOR help. I really need you to tell someone NOW.

You are in my prayers

Grandma Betty xoxox

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bijougirl4 answered Saturday November 18 2006, 9:30 pm:
i don't have an answer for this one couse it's really deep. but know you got my prayers and that you should go to someone who can really help you. ( if u haven't already)

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