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i really need some serious advice
I have been intimate with a guy for 3 years.And we have been in a relationship twice the only thing about it is that it lasted 4months .i really have feeling for him but i think he is scared of commitment,im 19 ill be 20 December and he just turned 19 june
ps i think im in love
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Well, if he's scared, convince him that there's no reason to be scared. Show him your love, show him that you're the perfect girl for him (I'm not sure if you believe that yourself, people rarely have that much confidence, but you don't have to believe it as long as he does ;)). Also show him you're patient and respect his wishes and worries, this is important in gaining his trust.
And most of all talk to him. Find out what he wants in a relationship and of life in general.
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Hey, well i have a been dating tis guy for a year and a half now and he's not ready for commetment yet either, He may just need a little time to think about it, i mean yeah 3 years is along time but he is only 19. I think mabe you should try to talk to him. Mabe then yall can see eye to eye and come up with some kind of agreement.
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There's not a lot to go on here, but really, the only way to solve any relationship problem is by talking it out. He's not a mind reader. He's never going to know that something is wrong unless you tell him about it, and if you wait, the chances of both of you getting hurt are higher.
-Beulah
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well just give him time. let him know that you will wait for him til he's ready for a serious relationship. mabey he justs needs a major turning point to realize when he's ready.
Hop it works out! :)
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