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What to do...
Ok. So i have been dating my boyfriend for a month now and we are all good but like night we were like randomly talking about this one girl named Anna. They has been friends for a little while and i asked him if he would do her and he said no. So then i was like ya...and hes like shes all hairy because she mexican and stuff. I was like i bet if she wasnt you would (but i was joking) and hes like ya i would. I was like what the fuck? And hes like well if we werent together or anything. Would that piss you off? What should i do about that?
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I've been with my boyfriend, well fiance' for over a year now. We always get into those conversations cause I'm really paranoid. Yeah, I get pissed off and upset. But he always tells me to look at it this way: You are the one he is with. You are the one he loves. You are the one he wants. And theres a lot more. But yeah. Don't worry about it, its gonna be like that with any guy.
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Well honestly all i can say is i dont know what kind of guy your boyfriend is but i have been dating my boyfrind for 1 yeah and a half now and we always joke around with stupid stuff like that, but i mean he says answers like that to, but he is joking he probly is being sarcastic because you were asking him questions like that. But if that really bothers you then go check this girl out and if ne more stuff like that comes up then do what your heart tells you to do...
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Do absolutely nothing.
You asked him dear. Not just once, but more then once. You even made the question unrealistic. Once you put an "if she wasn't hairy" question out there YOU IMPLIED THAT THE FACTS OF THE SITUTATION DIDN'T MATTER, in this case, the fact that she was actually hairy didn't matter. So he very logically assumed you also meant that the fact of the two of you being togeather didn't matter in your hypothetical question. You practically trapped him hun.
You can't punish a guy for an answer you pulled out of him agianst his better judgement. In the future don't ask silly questions and you wont get silly answers.
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Let it go! You asked him the question! If you weren't going out with him would you have sex with a hot guy if you could?? YA that's what i thought. If you don't want to hear a truthful answer then don't ask a question. At least he's honest with you, that's lucky!
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