I like this guy a lot and I have for a long time. And he FINALLY likes me and everythings going good, but I just found out he has herpes and herpes is skin to skin and he has it on his mouth. Im scared.
I dont want to get it but I dont wanna not get my chance with the guy i've liked. and ahh i dont know what to do? hellp!?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? loveismurderbabyyy answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 5:58 am: you can be with him, you just wouldn't be able to kiss each other.
which would be REALLY difficult.
but whatever you do, please don't kiss him.
you really don't want that disease because it can be deadly.
AND, because if you two ever broke up you would want to be with other people, but you wouldn't be able to kiss them because you had an STD.
so PLEASE, if you really NEED to be with him, don't kiss him.
if he likes you enough he'll respect you and your decision to not kiss.
Rainbow23 answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 4:54 am: To be honest it shouldn't affect your deep inner feelings for him and if he really cared about you then he wouldn't kiss you and give it to you. [ Rainbow23's advice column | Ask Rainbow23 A Question ]
LM answered Tuesday November 7 2006, 10:45 pm: Is it really worth getting herpes from this guy? Make sure before you make any decision, though, that he actaully HAS herpes and it's not just a rumor.. you know? If he actually has it... I personally would stay away from this guy. But it's up to you. My personal opinion is, it's a bad idea. But hey, its your life and I'm not gonna tell you what to do. [ LM's advice column | Ask LM A Question ]
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