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whats he thinking
14/f
I go to school with this boy that i like. he told my best friend he liked me too and that he was going to ask me out... now today he told her he liked someone more, and he didnt know if he was going to ask me out... what is he thinking. do i wait around for him or try with someone else?????
please help me!!!!!!!
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If he cant decide between you and another girl than i would not go out with him, because now you know there is another girl that he likes, maybe even more than you. If you are willing to take that chance, Go ahead, You have nothing to lose.
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if you really really like him i'd ask him out. he might actually like someone more, and if he does it'll be fine, but i'd take the risk. 1:because you'll never know if you don't try,2:most of the time if one peson likes more than one other person they' be happy if even one noticed them and 3:even if he doesn't reeeeeally like you because he doesn't know you, if you guys date he'll get to know you...it actually happens a lot. but either way be prepared for an "i don't think so". you don't want to get hurt. but i'd go for it.
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If there's someone he likes more, I'd try and move on without him.
If you wait around and he does ask you out, that won't be a very good relationship, knowing your boyfriend likes someone else more than he does you. And it'd also make me wonder if it's some sort of pity thing like,"Aw, well I already told her first I'd ask her out, and I don't want to hurt her feelings." You know?
So I wouldn't sit there and wait for him, cause my gut tells me he's going to ask the other girl out. :/ And if he doesn't, he should. I'm not saying that to like, hurt your feelings or anything, but I'm just saying, if you like someone, you should go with them, not keep the other girl waiting around seeing if you two'll ever break up or something and give her ( you ) possible false hopes.
I would just move on and find someone better. You shouldn't HAVE to wait around to be aksed out by a guy or wait around and see if he's ever going to ask you or that other girl out. I know if I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't want some girl, and other possible girls he mkae like sitting there in the back of his mind while he's with me.
I hope I helped.
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