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Clever ideas?
I have clever ideas for kissing me boyfriend, cuddling with him, or just clever, cute things to say to him. I have them in my head, however, when I go to say them I can't get the words out of my mouth! I seem to freeze up, I'm usually not nervous at all around him. How can I get over this?
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You wanna know how to get over this? You shouldn't have to have a script with your boyfriend! Do not plan what you're goin to say, because it will be completely obvious that you did plan it. Believe me, the cutest times come when they are a surprise. Be yourself, stop editing your words and actions, and you will be way happier.
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It seems to me like you have over-thought it. That is a good way to get nervous. So, when you start feeling nervous, just take a deep breath and kiss him. The nerves won't last long.
Have you ever jumped off a high dive? I remember my first time doing that. I was so scared. I got to the top and was terrified. There were two ways down. The long slow way of going down the ladder, and the fast way of just jumping. So I did. That got it over with faster, and I found that it wasn't so scary after all.
Most things in life are like that. You can avoid them and continue to have nerves about them, or just jump in and enjoy the ride.
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well the easiest way is to get drunk, that would lower your inhibitions. but i don't advocate drinking to solve anything. the best thing you can probably do is just take a deep breath and do it, don't think, just do it.
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