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Should i tell her he is going to stand her up?
Ok, the deal is my friend likes this guy and he told me he hates her, and she was going to ask him out, but i said not to because i didnt want her to get hurt, so she didnt, but then as a dare he asked her out. And i asked him wat was goin on , and he said he did it as aa joke, and now my friend thinkz they are a couple wen they arent, and he offered to take her out on saturday, but he isplanning on cancelling. And i dont know if i should tell her because she got mad at me last weak for telling her, and i am so not sure. Please help me. She really likes this guy. I need advice! Thankz u rok! :)
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Tell her. Be ready to be yelled at. Know that she doesn't want to believe you and that is why she gets mad. She won't listen to you, but you need to tell her. When he proves you right, be there for her. Don't rub it in. No saying "I told you so."
If you don't tell her, she will find out you knew and be angry that you didn't warn her. You will have her mad either way. Telling her will blow over, not telling her can really hurt your friendship because you would have just let her get hurt without even trying to help (even though you did try before. This is kind of a new situation).
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Before you do anything, are you postive these facts are true? If they are, you have to tell her. A real friend wouldn't stand there and let their friend be humiliated and get her feelings hurt twice as much.
I would just sit down with her and be like,"____, I got something to tell you, and I know you got mad at me before whenever I told you, but I just don't want you to get hurt by him. He told me he was planning on canceling your date, and that he was dared to ask you out. He didn't really like you like that." If she still doesn't believe you, let her cool down, and don't try to persue the conversation. Then later suggest to her that could you possibly tag along with her on Saturday to see if he really shows up.
Whenever she sees that he doesn't, you'll be there to hug her, comfort her, and talk to her about it all. And just let her know you didn't want to be right, you really didn't and that this guy is a huge jerk for doing this to her.
I hope I helped.
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definetely tell her. as long as youve got ur story stragiht, then it sounds like your girl is up for some serious hurt. dont let it happen if you have anything to do about it.
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ok listen up put your self in your friends shoes how would you feel now from where your standing you know its a big joke and your her friend now think if she is your friend and you Care about her you would tell her get my drift she desevres to know Xx lol sorry if that was a bit to harsh let me no how every thing goes XxX
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