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TORN IN BETWEEN THE 2!!!


Question Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 12:57 pm

Ok, so i am friends with these girls in my 3rd period class, but i am also friends with these other girls in the same class, and the problem is that the 2 groups don't like each other. and when i'm hangin out with one group and they start talkin about the other group, it seems kinda wrong to me to even be associated with them. i have alot of other friends, but the 2 groups make up the majority of my class, and it's either talk to them or talk to the nerds...(lol) and one of the girls from one of the 2 groups kissed this boy who had a girlfriend...and i wuz wonderin if that classified her as a ho or not. cuz she does have a reputation for messin around with boys who have girlfriends.

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MelLeDisko answered Sunday October 29 2006, 2:00 pm:
[EDIT: Oh, well in that case, yeah if I were to hear about that in school or something, I'd probably classify her sort of as a ho. ]


Well, as for the girl who kissed a guy while he had a girlfriend, she may be a ho, she may not. It depends on how everyone views that. I do view it a little hoish, but remember; the guy's just as guilty as she is for kissing eachother. It takes two to kiss.

As for the group thing, you shouldn't have to choose between one or the other. If they start talking about the other group, ask them to please not talk about them infront of you because you're their friends also, or to just not expect you to say anything bad about them. You can't control what people say, I know which sucks, but you can ask them to control WHEN they say it.

So just split the time you talk to each group during class. Talk to one class maybe at the beginning of class, and the other at the end, or talk to one group the whole class one day, and then the other group the other. And same for projects. One project, this group gets you, and the other project, you partner up with the other group. You just have to learn to split your time between people, but you should never dump off one for the other.

I hope I helped.

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