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too much on my mind...


Question Posted Tuesday October 24 2006, 2:59 pm

I've been in High school now for about 3 months, and I can't stand it! With all the work and relationships changing, it's putting too much pressure on me! I'm doing horrible in Math, I've made a good friend but lately all we've been doing is talking about my other good friend behind her back and I feel INCREDIBLY guilty. I try to stop, but that one friend makes me so mad, she makes me say mean things about her behind her back. I also HATE getting up in the mornings. It's now impossible to wake me up. My mom gets so mad at me. All I want to do is stay home, I practically give up on school, but I'm trying not to because I want to learn. I've already missed 3 days of school, and I've been tardy about 4 times. I never was this bad in middle school. I only missed 2 days in 8th grade through the whole year. I can't do this. I'm also getting sick of my one friend who is ALWAYS in a bad mood now. She says it's school, but she doesn't need to take it out on me all the time! I really want to leave and go to a different school, but it would have to be a public school, and I've always attended a private school my whole life. I also don't think I'll make any friends because I'm so shy. I really need to relax, but I don't know how. I just want to get away from my 1 old friend, then everything will be ok. But how can I do that when I'm scared that she'll get amd at me? part of me wants to stay, but an even BIGGER part of me wants to leave! Thanks lots, and sorry... I complain a lot. =)

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karenR answered Tuesday October 24 2006, 8:00 pm:
It takes a little while to get into the swing of high school, but you will.

Sounds like your biggest problem is the friends. Sounds like they don't like each other much. You need to tell your new friend that you will talk about anything under the sun except the old friend.
Just tell her it upsets you and you don't want to discuss her good OR bad.

Just make sure you have some good friends. If they get annoying, stop hanging around with them and find some new ones. You probably don't need to change schools just maybe the people you hang out with. :)

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