|
boys
I'm a 15-year-old girl in need of serious help. My boyfriend and i just got back together afetr a ceating ordeal that he had for a while. Last night i went to a friends party and this guy(who's 20) had his arms around me and my best friend. i think i like this guy, and it feels as though i have just cheated on my boyfriend. did i cheat on him or was this just harmless fun?
signed,
Confused Girl.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Absolutely not! Having someone's arm around you can be seen as a friendly gesture :) You didn't intend on going further (ie. Kissing etc) so no, you have not cheated on your boyfriend, so there's no reason to be thinking so.
]
You did nothing wrong. This guy put HIS arm around YOU, and you guys didn't kiss or do anything, so no, it's not cheating. It was like giving a friend a hug, basically.
Even though you might like this guy, I think it'd be best to stay away from him in the dating sense. He's too old for one, and he can get into alot of trouble for dating, or having intercourse with ( not saying you are going to but you know what I mean ), a minor.
I think you should stick with your current guy. You two have just gone through a humongus obstacle that most couples might not make it through, so this shows you guys really care for eachother. So I'd give your current relationship another shot and see how much better it gets now that the ordeals over with and everyone's better. :D
I hope I helped.
]
If he had his arm around you and your friend and nothing happened between you then it wasn't cheating. Just forget about it, you did nothing wrong.
The 20 year old probably won't date you if he's smart. Not saying that to be mean. There is quite an age and probably experience difference between you.
He could go to jail if you should date and get intament. Stick with your guy. :)
]
More Questions: |