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Why Am I Doing This?
Okay, well to start off, I'm 14/f. Well, my biggest crush is in my gym class(John)...along with the girl(Pam) he asked out few days ago. It was killing me to see them hugging and holding each other through out the whole class and don't get me wrong, I don't hate his gf or dislike. She's an aquantance..sp?
Anywhos, this year as high school started, I met this other guy that I have another huge crush on...and he's in a grade higher than me. Well, he's going to the homecoming with Kayla just as friends (he's emphasized that part so many times) Well, coincidently Kayla has liked this guy for over a year now and I've liked him for a few months. Kayla is sort of a friend of mine? She's in one of my classes and I talked to her a few times. Well, after knowing the fact that Kayla likes this guy that I also like, my friends and I went to the football game and met up with my crush and Kayla was there too.
The thing is we (this guy and me) flirted like crazy the whole time. And during that time, Kayla was right in front of us...and I felt really bad because I was probably hurting her like John and Pam were hurting me without knowing it. But the only difference is that I knew I was probably hurting Kayla and didn't stop.
Is this wrong and mean of me to do? (Note that Kayla doesn't know that I know she likes this guy)
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It is a little wrong and mean of you to do, but it's not like he's dating her or anything, or anybody for that matter. And he's obviously emphasized to everyone that they're just going together to homecoming as friends, so she already knows they're just friends ; nothing more.
If you're going to flirt with him though, I suggest just not doing it in her face anymore, haha okay? I'm sure she was hurt, but I think she would've been more hurt if you were like, her BEST FRIEND and that she knew you knew she liked him. She doesn't even know, she she just might be thinking now that you like him too, which IS the truth. ( Does that make sense, lol? )
I would just sit down with her and mention him and the football game and just be like,"Yeah, I think I'm starting to like him." So that way she knows you like him too, and if you ever do flirt with him again, it's because you have a crush on him, and so she doesn't think you're just trying to steal him from her ( some friends like to steal guys from their friends just because their friend likes the guy ). So basically, then she knows: it's fair competition for everyone.
I hope I helped.
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