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My dad
14/f I asked my dad like a year and a half ago who he loved more me or his girlfriend(ho/gold digger) and he said I can't answer that..He should have said me right? since I'm his daughter and all and I've been around him while much more than that ho of his it still bothers me I can't forgive him for saying that. Or was that a right answer he said.. what do you think?
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Did you ask it in front of her? Maybe he did not want her hearing it or it getting back to her that he loves you more. Especially if there has been competition or fighting about her, he wanted to keep the peace. It still is hurtful that he did not automatically say you, but the love of a father for a daughter and the love he has for this adult woman is totally different and you really cannot compare them. Love is one word with a million meanings. He has romantic love for her and unconditional love for you. You probably give him grief from time to time and he still loves you no matter what, even if you piss him off. I guarentee that he will not put up with nearly as much crap from a girlfriend. People divorce all the time their lovers, but not their children! Children are loved forever!!! Tell your dad you know that the type of love is different and not really comparable, but you need to know that he loves you more than anyone and that he won't stop or love her more. Tell him that it hurt your feelings, because you really need to hear him say how much he loves you. Men aren't good with communicating their feelings, but I think he can come up with something better and more reassuring.
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He can't answer it because he probably loves you both. He just loves you in a different way than he loves her. Which is what he should have said. But dads don't always know what to say to their teenage daughters so forgive him!
Sounds like you don't like her very much. Can I give you some advice on that? My dad has gone through 3 different wives since he divorced my mom. You don't have to like her a lot but for dads sake give her a chance.
If she makes him happy, and you don't have to see her everyday, then just try to get along. It will make him happy. Parents aren't perfect and no matter how many wives or girlfriends he has in the future, he always has you and loves you very much. :)
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