ok me & my ex get started talkin again i found out she likes me && i kinda like her back but i promised myself that i wouldnt go back out with her ckuz she doesnt trust me or believe me with nothin i say so everytime we talk my feeling come back to her. what should i do
sizzlinmandolin answered Monday October 16 2006, 2:59 pm: No matter how much you like her, you know that you're not entirely compatible with her. Relationships are based on more than just liking someone. Sure, it could work out, but it's probably not worth trying. Once you break up with someone, there's not much of a chance that you'll have a successful relationship with them in the future. A break up puts a huge wall between you that won't ever completely be broken down. If you are willing to work extra hard and go through a lot of pain to make it work out, go ahead and try. Just know that there's a good chance that in the end it will fall apart again. Remember that there are tons of other people out there that you could be happy with. I'd say that you should go with your logic and not take her back. Everybody always says to follow your heart, but it's your head that's usually right. Good luck. [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
grannysays answered Monday October 16 2006, 2:39 pm: Hey,
The best thing to do is to be honest with her, and let her know how you feel about her, but let her know what bothers you, if you don't the relationship will never be right or fair to either of you. Sometimes you have to risk losing something to have it...Good Luck - Granny [ grannysays's advice column | Ask grannysays A Question ]
Rieanna answered Monday October 16 2006, 1:59 pm: I have promised my self the same thing w/ my ex boyfriend and at times i do cach my self likking him again. But stay true to your promise and no matter how much you or her keep likking each other just think of what had happened the last time. Thats what i do and it has been working for about a year now. Dont be come me and go out w/ someone 5 times until you get the pictuer, it aint gonna work and then promise your self that. BE true to your self and stay strong.
Your friend Rieanna [ Rieanna's advice column | Ask Rieanna A Question ]
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