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my friend goes to a different school...and im lost with out
hi... i truely truely need help. im always depressed. i think its because of my BEST FRIEND in the whole world. she goes to an all girls school. i miss her sooooo much. she was my best friend ever. and i never have anyfriends to talk about everything with at school. i just totally miss her. and im always depressed. she would always make me laugh and make my day. just...now that she goes to a different school...im just LOST with out her. =[ i dont make friends that easily. but i have alot of friends. but none of them are close.. like danielle. [thats her name]...you will probably say..just move on ... but ITS SOOO HARD. im not sure how you would understand this problem.. but i just cant live with out her. ALSOOO.... im also always depressed cause my love life IS HORRIBLE. a few guys like me..but thats not the case..im friends with soo many guys. and they just only like me as a friend. im 12 years old. and female.
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH.
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-Hello,
First to start with your guy problem. It's not a problem and you really shouldn't have a love life at 12 years old. It's too young. Maybe not for you, but as I am sure you have learned in health or whatever boys mature much later in life. So 12 year old boys are still 9 years old at heart. If you get involved, they will probably break your heart or be immature around you. So I would say don't sweat it now and enjoy your middle school days. It's okay to have crushes and stuff and sure you can have boyfriends at that age.. I did, but I'm just telling you not to count on a long lasting happily ever after perfect movie boyfriend because that is not gonna happen for another few years. You should be lucky that a few guys like you. Any of them a possible boyfriend? If not, then become friendlier with the one you want so they can get to know you first.
Okay now with your friend. I know it must be tough without your best friend by your side at school. I'm not going to tell you to move on if you don't want to. You can still be close with Danielle. You guys, I'm sure can see each other all the time. Hang out on weekends, do homework together, etc etc. Just because she's not in your school does not cut her from your life. Now you told me you have a lot of friends and that's a good start. Instead of being mopy and upset in school, try to be friendlier and get closer to the other girls so at least you have someone to talk to in school.
Get back to me,
-HERE4YOU
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