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My friend has problems
so my friends gay, & her name is Chelsea. =) but she has a b/f. wtheck?! but she`s not bi. she`s a bia. make sense? not to me. uhhh; whattt does this mean? she keeps asking me if i`ll be her g/f like but she`s got that b/f. is this an undercover thing? she`s told me she`s only gay. not bi. gah.
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well i think chelsea is very confused about her sexuality. she says she's gay but has a boyfriend. maybe she's still trying to figure out what she wants to be. maybe she has other personal reasons. if her boyfriend knows, then maybe she should try dating a girl. if he doesn't know, they maybe she should tell him. if she has feelings for you and you are straight, talk to her about it. if this puts a strain on your friendship, confront her. i hope my advice helps. good luck! :]
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Is she out? If not she probably dont want anybody to know about her being gay so she uses him as a shield!
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Well, sometime's people who are homosexual don't feel comfortable with sharing their sexuality with everybody yet, so some people think that by having a boyfriend everyone's going to think "well obviously they're not gay" or whatever and they'll be accepted ( because as you know, not EVERYONE is comfortable with homosexual people which I think is stupid ).
So it probably is an undercover thing, if she's not bisexual at all.
As for the her asking you to be her girlfriend thing, just be honest with her ( I mean you guys are friends ; you're supposed to be honest with eachother, right? ) and just let her know you're sorry, but you're straight.
I hope I helped.
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