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Several [Little] Questions In One
Okay, there are little questions that I wish to ask. You ugys don't have to answer all of them but I really wish that there is at least one answer for a question. Anywhos
I'm a freshmn this year and I'm 14..
There's this guy in my strings class that I like and I think he likes me back too. The thing is that he's in 12th grade while I'm in 9th. He's really sweet and funny though. He lends me his jacket when I'm cold and offers me rides home. Do you think it would be a good idea to go out with him?
Then there's this guy in my biology and gym class. He likes me and is going to ask me to homoecoming (so says everyone) but the thing is he's not my type and I only like him as a friend. But he's really insecure and I'm like one of three female friends he has. I basically motivate him to do well at school and etc. Is there a nice way to turn him down if he does ask??
Third and final question. There's this guy who lives 30minutes away from him. I want him to come to my school homecoming with me. Not officialy as a couple or anything but the thing is that since he doesn't go to my school, I might end up buying the tickets for both of us but that would be weird? yes? Anywhos would it be weird if I make him pay for it? If not, how do I slyly suggest that he pays for it and such??
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Question 1:
No, I don't think it would be weird if you went out with him. Alot of girls tend to go out with older guys, there was actually a girl last year ( when I was in 9th ) that went out with a senior herself, so it's not really a big deal. I know the grade makes it sound like a huge age difference, but if you think about it, it's only like, 3 years which isn't that bad. And he sounds like a sweetheart to me, why pass that up? :)
Question 2:
If he does ask you, just let him know you're sorry, but you've sort of already planning to ask someone else these past couple of days, but if he wants, you guys can share a few dances together at homecoming and hang out and stuff for awhile! ( So in a way it could be like a date, except you're not there the whole entire time with him ). And I'm sure he'll be happy enough that you're going to dance with him a few dances and hang out with him and talk to him and stuff. But if he IS insecure, there is still the chance he might not, cause I'm sure rejection is in his mind, so you might not even have to worry.
Question 3:
I went to semi with someone last year, and they didn't go to my school and I paid for both of our tickets. Well, my mother did, haha. I don't think it would be way too weird, just explain to him your mother paid for those tickets but she needs the price of his ticket money back because she was supposed to be using that money for something else ( a little white lie ). But him being the gentleman he's supposed to be, he'll either pay for his own ticket or even offer to pay for both. My date wanted to pay for his own, but I told him it was no problem, I already did it, and he let me know he was going to pay me back for his ticket. If you want to suggest for him to pay for his own, just be like,"I'm sorry, I was going to pay for your ticket also, but I didn't rack in enough money in time to be able to afford yours. Do you have money to pay for your own? I'm so sorry." And just let him know you sound sincere and everything, and I'm sure he won't mind.
I hope I helped.
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Are you saying that there are two guys you have feelings for? This seems, weird? If you like the boy in your strings class, & he likes you, you should really consider going out with him. BUT, if the guy who lives 30 mins away is who you want to take to homecoming, then you will have a problem. You can't like them both... especially if you brought someone else to homecoming other than your (soon-to-be) boyfriend, he`d get really upset.
Now, for the guy in the middle, since you really don't want to go with him, you can kindly tell him that you would really just like to go with another guy or friends, or something. But, you need a way to say it? Just if he asks you say something like i just want to stay friends and if we go to the dance together it might turn into something more and thats not something i want to do but then offer to let him dance with you at least once thatll make him feel better and he`ll understand yeah he'll be a lil disapointed but it`ll just make ur friend reletionship a lot better in time! maybe even sooner. two ppl helped with this advice if you wanted to know so i hope it helps.
Thankss. ♥
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