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begging him/keeping stuff from me.
I really like the guy that i am talking about here.
My friend kept telling me that she will talk to this guy and see if he would dance with me tonight at homecoming.I told her not to talk to him because its not worth it and she was damn sure that he would say yes. So yea she asked him and he said he would dance with a few times. So after school my friend came over and she got on my computer and he had sent her a message through myspace and it was from him so she told me not to look at the computer while she read it. But obviosuly i knew since it was from and she let me read his messages earlier that it was about me so i looked anyways without her knowing and he said something like this: "meet me in the hallway, and i don't really think i want to dance with her"
So she sent him something back and added "will you please just dance with her"
I felt really depressed and my heart like broke at that point. So i went to the dance and she walked away from me and went with her date. I was dancing with a few friends on one side and it happened to be right in front of him so i figured that i would just dance like a mad man to make him kinda jealous or whatever idk.
The last 40 min of the dance he started hanging all over this other girl and a slow song had came on and i sat down and honestly he was all i could look at. Ad he was holding on to that other girl so freakn tight.
i knoe i may sound like a complete idiot but i honestly don't know what to do. I cant stop thinking about him. And the fact the he doesnt like me.
And also how wrong was it to look at her message after she told me not too? And plus she doesnt realize that i did but she was not going to to tell me that he didnt want to dance with me.
please help...
thank you.
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Second question first. I'm not going to tell you if it was 'right' for you to look at the message behind her back...but it really didn't do you a lot of good. She, as a friend was trying to protect you, so you wouldn't get hurt like you did. Then again, don't dwell on whether or not you made the right decision, because the decision's made, and you're never going to forget what you read.
Now, the guy. I don't mean to be insensitive, but it's a bit obvious that the guy dosen't like you. If he did, he wouldn't be hanging all over some other chick, instead of dancing with you. It hurts, I know. A good friend of mine is currently in the same situation. But the fact remains that you can't force a guy to like you. The best thing to do is think about all of the reasons you don't want to be with him. Try to keep your mind away from his undeniable attractiveness. It will pass, I promise, all crushes do. Hope I helped.
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First off, your second question... I don't know whether or not it was necessarily wrong for you to look at the message, but what you saw probably hurt your feelings which your friend was trying to avoid. I guess you can say it's kind of like eavesdropping. The old saying is you don't want to eavesdrop because you might hear something about yourself that you don't want to hear.
As for the guy... you obviously have a serious crush on the dude, so yah, you won't be able to stop thinking of him until it passes (and it will in time). Honestly, he probably isn't the kind of guy you are looking for. I know that's not what you want to hear, but if he was interested in you, he would have danced with you and wouldn't have acted as he did at the last of the dance. Really, to me, he sounds like he may be kind of a jerk.
But don't worry, like I said before, you will get over him. Just remember the old saying about there being many fish in the sea, because it's the truth. You will find that someone to dance with and you will probably be much happier with that future fellow.
Just hang in there, because sometimes teen life can really suck, especially when it comes to boys!
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i know how you feel ive been through things just like that it sucks i know but youll get over it. sooner or later. what i would do is try to get him to like you. everytime you see him in the hallway say hi and flirt a little. as long as you like him keep doing things like that. after a while he will start to like you even though he might deny it. if he at anytime says that you guys should hang out or he starts talking to you more than normal theres ur Q that most likely means he likes you. ok but heres one thing you need to keep your mind on. if he flirts with other gurls dont get jelouse and get mad. things like that are goin to happen maybe even worse. so just keep trying. i really hope this helps. if you have anymore problems just ask and ill help you out. promise!
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