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Annoying and clingy
There's this girl I'm friends with and I don't really want to be friends with her anymore. She's like way too clingy. She always makes me wait for her or wait with her while she's getting her lunch when she's in line. She also won't stop calling me and following me and she always wants me to be her partner for every single project. She also hurts me for no reason at all!!! And everytime I leave without her for lunch she looks for me and says," You ditched me. Why did you do that? Your my friend." I can't tell her I don't want to be friends anymore because she know who I like and she told me if I ever make her upset she'll tell everyone who I like. What should I do!!! HELP!!!
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Heres What you should do caz ive had this problem before wat i did was i simply went up to the guy i liked and sed hey i USEST to like you and he sed okay? then that was seteled then i went up to my friend and said hey uhh no ofence but i dont really like you and if you wer relally my friend u woldnt thretin me like that. or if you just wat to be friends with her then just be like hey listen im not trying to be mean but i need some space! so thats wat i did and wat i wold of done so hope i helped !!! 8)
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You have to set limits for yor friend. If you can't trust her, don't. Find other friends, and if you really need to, tell her that it would be better if you weren't freinds. You have to tell her what's wrong, if you don't, she will continue to pick on you. IF she does spill your secret of who you like, just brush it off. Say to yourself, "I wouldn't sink so low to resort to spilling secrets" keep saying this, and if people make fun of you, remember, you are kind. YOU WILL PULL THROUGH. I went through the same thing.
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That's a sticky situation. If I were you I would slowly start making excuses about why you couldn't wait for her or be her partenter for a project.
For example: when it's time for lunch, stick around to talk to the teacher. Hopefully she will go ahead the cafeteria without you. Try to find ways to make it look like you aren't 'ditching' her, but you still can't hang around with her ALL THE TIME.
After a while of your not constantly being with her, she will probably find someone else to cling to, and leave you alone!
Hope That Helps!
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Ahh gay stalkers. I have a "friend" like that. Hah I hate her so much.
Yeah, anyways, do you have any classes together? If you don't then, that's awesome for you. Well, maybe she'll make new friends and back off from you during that class. Of course, there's those people who over half of the school hates and my friend just has to be one of them, so sadly she doesn't make friends. Hopefully, your's isn't like that.
Try hanging out with other people and use that as in an excuse to not hang out with her. But, if she's planning for weeks and weeks about doing something with you, I'm sorry but you'll probably have to do it. Yeah, I know, it sucks doesn't it? Well, if you don't do that, then she'll probably be a little faggot and go tell the guy you like.
So, basically, the less time you spend with her, the less good friend's you two will be.
Or you can go up to her tomorrow and tell her that you like someone else. Say that it's like some guy in your neighborhood who she doesn't know or some guy at your church that she doesn't know. Yep, then you can just ditch her. FOR GOOD.
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