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bikiniiss.


Question Posted Monday October 2 2006, 8:08 pm

BIKINI INCIDENT.
Yeah, so I was at my friends party, Jaci. & it was at the rec center. So, when we were swimming.. this one girl Ellen, she just kept talking to the guys. [They tried to like crash our party, they weren't even invited.]
**By the way, all the girls were invited.
So, we like hate them. & there like slutty Ellen is FLIRTING AWAY WITH THEM. So, my friend Stephanie & me got mad.. because it made Jaci cry, & so we also were like dude, way to ditch us. So, we went behind her, & you know when you wanna get someones attention, you snap there bikini? like.. yeah.. well thats what my friend Stephanie & I meant to do. We were in the deep end & Stephanie & me suck at swimming, so we both grabbed the ends, & it like started to come undone, but she caught it the second it did. & the guys said they didn't even see anything. So, then she got all mad at us. & like all the girls & half the guys like hate her.. so they were all like GOOD JOB! So, we still apologized, because we felt bad. But, instead of her just slowly forgiving us. She told all these people, & made them think we were lesbians. Which is TOTTALY gay, considering Stephanies had like 4 boyfriends & I've had like 8 boyfriends & madeout with them and such. So, yeahh. We're mad that they think that. I don't know what do. Everyone kept teasing Stephanie in school, about it. They didn't say anything to me, because.. well I'm mean. haha. But, I don't know whether to yell at Ellen, & like completely ruin her life.. or to, just act like I don't care & never talk to her again.

What is the best way to go about this?
I don't care if I'm being mean or nice. So, thats not why I just want to ignore it. But, to act like I don't care.

Hmmmm. Advice please??


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xomegaroni answered Tuesday October 3 2006, 5:22 pm:
ignore it. obviously you guys aren't lesbians. slutty ellen haha =) that part was funny, but anyways, yeah it's just ms/hs drama. nothing more. eventually it will juss go away & everyone will forget about it. you shouldn't really care either. you made a mistake [which every human being basically has done] & you appologized. what else can you do?? send her a huge appology card?? no. she'll get over it & the reason why she's calling you lesbians is most likely because she's embarrased that you guys did that. it really isn't a big deal. if you do want to be her friend, try talking to her about it.

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xomegaroni answered Tuesday October 3 2006, 5:22 pm:
ignore it. obviously you guys aren't lesbians. slutty ellen haha =) that part was funny, but anyways, yeah it's just ms/hs drama. nothing more. eventually it will juss go away & everyone will forget about it. you shouldn't really care either. you made a mistake [which every human being basically has done] & you appologized. what else can you do?? send her a huge appology card?? no. she'll get over it & the reason why she's calling you lesbians is most likely because she's embarrased that you guys did that. it really isn't a big deal. if you do want to be her friend, try talking to her about it.

-hope that helped!♥

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xomegaroni answered Tuesday October 3 2006, 5:22 pm:
ignore it. obviously you guys aren't lesbians. slutty ellen haha =) that part was funny, but anyways, yeah it's just ms/hs drama. nothing more. eventually it will juss go away & everyone will forget about it. you shouldn't really care either. you made a mistake [which every human being basically has done] & you appologized. what else can you do?? send her a huge appology card?? no. she'll get over it & the reason why she's calling you lesbians is most likely because she's embarrased that you guys did that. it really isn't a big deal. if you do want to be her friend, try talking to her about it.

-hope that helped!♥

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liKEiLOVEYOU23 answered Tuesday October 3 2006, 10:11 am:
well i think its pretty immature what happened. sounds like middle school drama but honestly i think that you should talk to her about it and confront her and tell her ur real feelings.
dont go spreading more rumors and such but be the bigger person instead. that my friend, builds character.
and then if she still doesnt understand or forgive you. forget it.

if its not worth the friendship to either one of you then then you both are better off just not talking.

eventually though, she'll come around, and so will you. and you both will be bf4ls again.
ive seen it happen many many times before.
:)

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