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Question Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 4:34 pm

im 13 and i have never had a bf or my first kiss is this normal?

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MelLeDisko answered Sunday September 24 2006, 9:55 pm:
Yes, of course it's normal. Most girls and boys don't really start to REALLY like eachother until like, 11 or 12 or so, so not having a boyfriend yet is perfectly normal. I mean, I'm 15 and I haven't had a real boyfriend yet ( unless a week counts ) and I haven't had my first kiss either. You're just becoming a teenager so just wait and see what happens and the right guy'll come along. I hope I helped.

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Volleyball2150 answered Sunday September 24 2006, 9:38 pm:
YES!!! of course it is normal!!!
Heres whats going on in life-
alot of people are already having boyfriends and already have had their first kiss around the age of 11-13... BUT they only do that because of peer pressure. Nobody's really doing it.... it's just people doing it because they want to "follow the crowd" and do what everybody else is doing. Everybody's not doing it... they just think everybody else is doing it. does that make scence? If it doesn't contact me and i'll describe it better.
I'm 14 and never had a bf or a kiss yet... but I dont plan on it. I'm too busy in my life for a bf right now. I have to focus on education and sports... right now at age 13 boyfriends and having your first kiss doensn't matter. All that matters is that you live your life. Besides... if you get a bf right now... there's not going to be much excitement when your 17 or 18. all the guys will think you're just "a girl who's already dated" and they wont want to be with you. So hun, trust me on this one.... Right now a bf doesn't matter.
If you need any more advice, come to me!

I hope I helped!
-volleyball2150

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ihateu answered Sunday September 24 2006, 9:36 pm:
its perfectly normal.. i actually think its a good thing because you should wait for the right guy anyway =)

rate please =)

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sternesindblind answered Sunday September 24 2006, 9:25 pm:
Believe it or not there are many people that wait longer than 13 to have a boyfriend and a first kiss. When you're becoming a teenager things are confusing and new to you and boys and kissing are much too complicated for that age. Even if people tell you otherwise you should know that 13 is the age where you're supposed to have fun being young while it lasts. The only way to be normal is to do what is right for you.

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